Guys, Is it normal for a guy to masturbate after good sex with his girlfriend?

Like he's masturbating an hour or two after sex? He does this frequently and we have sex everyday. Am I not satisfying him?
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  • this is not normal behavior in my opinion, esp as you have commented in other answers that you are prepared to let him have sex more than once in an evening

    • I guess I don't satisfy him? Sometimes we do round 2 but not every time.

    • I've asked what I can do to make it better and he just yells at me and says nothing.

    • to be honest it doesn't sound good and i am not sure that he is able to articulate what he wants which is a common problem for most guys. what sort of porn is he masturbating to? that may give you some idea of what he wants? does he have a fetish that he likes and is ashamed of?

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  • How often do you and he have sex? If every day, would you be willing to have sex with him twice a day? Young men have relatively high sex drives and shorter refractory periods than older men.

    • We do have sex once or twice daily. Sometimes 3 times.. but he still masturbates A LOT. Do I just not satisfy him with my vagina? Could it be bad? That's all I really want to know.

    • He has sex with you a lot and he gets off while doing so, so I’m sure he greatly enjoys your vagina. He’s almost certainly got a very strong sex drive and probably doesn’t want to wear you out physically with it. You should ask him why he does it just to be sure. He might be glad if you know and understand.

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  • I wouldn't be able to handle that much stimulation.

    • Is masturbating an hour or two after sex a bad sign? He came during sex, but I feel like he must not have had a good orgasm with me if he masturbated that soon after..

    • No, that's not a bad sign. If you want to know if you can do anything better, just ask the guy.

    • If he's masturbating that soon afyernsex tho, does that mean I didn't satisfy him? And I have asked if I can do anything better, he says NO and then gets mad and screams at me until I'm quiet.

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  • Get a vibrator out and join him

  • This is common with guys who are super horny, but I find it weird that he won't have sex with you a second time. Most guys jump at that chance, lol.

  • Ask him

  • I don’t know about other guys, but after good sex I’m usually good. Lol. If I found myself getting in the mood again I’d go for round two with her.

    • I guess I don't really satisfy him?

    • I don’t know. You should really discuss this with him.

    • I can't. I've tried and he gets mad and yells at me to shut up about it. I've asked what I can do to make sex better for him and he gets mad and shuts down and won't say anything.

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  • Depends. It could be if he is oversexed

  • That's weird, he should want your pussy more, not his hand.

    • Maybe my pussy just doesn't feel good..

    • I'm sure it does don't worry :)

    • Then why would he rather use his hand.. :(

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  • sometimes you still have a little more in the tank that you need to get out

    • Is my vagina too loose to get it all out fit him I guess? He came during the sex but was he not completely satisfied? What could possibly be wrong with me to cause this to happen so frequently?

    • i'm sure your vagina is fine... sometimes you just don't feel completely drained and don't notice it until a little while after. He might feel like he is bothering you if he is asking you to go for a round 2?

    • No I tell him all the time that we can go again.. I feel like such a turn off..

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  • Do u not make him cum?

    • I do.. I see his cum dropping out of me after sex. I guess maybe my pussy doesn't give him very good orgasms...

    • It if he cums his balls should be empty. Message me if u want. I can explain what I mean

    • How lomg after sex is he able to cum again? Because he masturbates like an hour or a couple hours after sex...

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  • If it a good sex he wouldn’t masturbate

    • What could be wrong with my vagina to make it not be satisfying my boyfriend? I do everything he asks in bed and we've played with all of our kinks, including the weird ones. I've been pretty open minded in bed.. at this point, I believe it's not because I'm not doing enough, o believe I have a physical problem that makes my vagina unable to satisfy him. Maybe I'm loose or feel too weird inside?

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