Is it normal for a straight guy to use a dildo on himself?

I cleaned out the car i share with my fiance of 5 years last week, and to my shock and horror i found a sack under the passenger seat with two (larger than what i would EVER use) dildos! I asked him what they were for and said he could be honest with me but i needed to know what they were and he admitted to using them but only once or twice and said he just wanted to "try" it... Should i believe this? Is this normal-ish? Straight men please answer!
Is it normal for a straight guy to use a dildo on himself?!?
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  • I'm a straight guy, I own a buttplug and I like using it. But it's not something I'd like to admit to a girl in fear of her not liking it and rejecting me because of it.
    So he could be telling the truth, although they're rather big for just trying, but that could just be bad decision making when he bought them.
    The best thing to do is just talk with him about it, especially if you haven't had any reasons before to doubt his loyalty to you.

    • Thank you! Finally a helpful honest answer!

    • Would you mind telling me when you use it? Have you always found it to turn you on? Any other details i might find useful to help me talk with him about it without it being offensive to him? I could tell it was hard for him to even respond when i first asked about them and I'm sure it's bc it embarrassed him like you said... I don't think he wanted to admit it... I've read somewhere that it has been proven and a man's rectal area is a stimulant for them but most men have homophobic ideas about being touched down there at all... I dont want him to feel ashamed about it. I don't think he is gay. I'm pretty sure.

    • Well, I'm a virgin, I like girls but have never been with one. So after a while just jerking off started to get... Old. So when looking online for ways to make it more interesting I read that the male G-spot is in the anus. I rejected the idea at first, but it stuck and one day I tried it, with one finger and it hurt, but also felt kinda good. So I kept trying in every now and then and wanted to try something different than just my fingers, so after a lot (like really a lot) of thinking I bought a buttplug. I don't use it always, but when I get really horny I use it when jerking off.

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  • Nope can't say I'd ever use a dildo 😑😑😑 if he only used them once or twice why wouldn't he throw them out he's definitely lying

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  • About half of men are either gay or bisexual, but many don’t identify as such. I have noticed that it’s usually bisexual/gay men that turn out to use dildos.

  • He could like the sensation and not be attracted to men, i mean i don't think its common but i'm sure it happens.

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  • Hell no 😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Thats not a straight man

    • The decoloration on the second one is gross. Ma'am there are kids on here, what were you thinking? 😅

    • You don't have to be rude it's not funny to me. Clearly.

    • Well my question was reviewed by admins and they put it back up so i guess my question is legit. Maybe your on the wrong site?

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  • Not normal.

  • It could be. Some straight guys like it.

    Or he could be bi?

  • Nope. That's not straight.

  • Never... you need a detective, either your guy is using it on other girl or he is not straight.

  • For some guys it's just a normal kink of fetish without being gay, but it's not that popular.

  • Girl friend on the side, bad news

    • Not to toot my own horn but i HIGHLY DOUBT he needs another girlfriend

    • XD what do you mean?

    • I just mean... I'm not ugly lol and im a pretty sexual woman...

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  • Dna swabs

    • He threw them away

    • Weird. Gross. Sorry

    • Lol :)

  • maybe he's a serial rapist and serial killer. im sure he raped and killed more than 20 girls.

    • Wtf kind of answer is that? I'm glad this is so funny to every one... I've spent the last 7 years of my life with this guy!

    • its always the same. u watch the news? "he was such a nice guy, we never thought of something like this"

    • Your a jerk.

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  • If he is straight then he will never get thoughts like that

    • Thoughts like what?

    • He's a gay! Or bisexual.

    • Thoughts like he's "a gay or bisexual"?

  • I'm a straight guy and I have a collection of these. The girlfriend likes to watch me ride them as she rides one in her pussy and one in her ass and has a vibrating wand on her clit. Occasionally I let her "catch me" ride one of these only for her to punish me with some spanking and a big strap on.

    We are into pegging, fisting as well as both riding machines like the sybian in addition to normal sex.

    Not a big deal. Just enjoy. if your guy was gay, he wouldn't be with you; he would be with a guy

  • I am a straight man, who has the best orgasms with anal play... we're talking full body, shaking, weak knees orgasms with prostate massage.
    I used think, "oh hell no, not me"... Well, I got bored one day and said what the hell... never looked back. Doesn't make me gay, I don't crave a man in me or to be inside one, or even have a relationship with one. I just love a damn good mind blowing orgasm...

  • No, it's not. He either had a lady friend or is not straight. One maybe but two? Nah no way. Sorry

  • No it is not

    • Not normal. Not strait.

    • Hopefully for your sake they belonged to another girl and he's cheating. Seems like the lesser of two fucked up situations