Is it normal for guys in a relationship to watch porn?

My boyfriend watches porn and jerks off to porn stars with my big tits. He makes me feel insecure by saying i have belly fat and small boobs :(

I am 120 lbs and 160 cm
33 - 26- 39. Pear shaped

Maybe my body doesn't turn him on
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  • Perfectly normal. I'm with my current girlfriend since almost 2 decades ago and I still can't stop watching some of my favourite porn girls getting riddled with cock holes.

    We love women, their bodies and their expressions as they feel pleasure and we can't ever get enough of it.

    Don't think any less of yourself because of that because I assure you, if you had those pornstars body, he'd still be pulling the rooster's neck either way.
    Sometimes I'd like to detach it and attach it to one of you girls just to make you realize how much of a bastard it is.

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  • Your boyfriend is an idiot for letting you know about his hobby and an asshole for saying those things to you. Tell him you want to make porn with him. Then tell him you want it to be bondage porn and tie him up. then think of creative places to spank him and tell him it's punishment. Or just break up with him.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he's saying you have belly fat and small boobs is also a way of body shaming you accordind to my shrink even if he grabs your body roll is a form of abuse psychological abuse, or grabs the parts wher u have a little or to much fat. Is like pointing your defects. And you should not allowed in will damage yourselfsteem on the long run.
    About porn why dont you look for a porn you like and suggest now to watch that one day him one day you choose. And so. I think that's fair.

  • Porn is ok in a relationship but he doesn't deserve you so move on.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You know what that's so fucked up and uncalled for tell him to go fuck when it is pornstars next time you want to get laid

  • To what I always heard it's normal though most girls hate it when their boyfriend do that.

  • There is no normal when it comes to sex, but a decent guy doesn't criticize his partner or her body. I'd politely tell him it hurts you when he says things like that and to please stop. If he doesn't change it's time for him to find a new girlfriend.

  • Find another guy that’s happy with you

  • Watching porn is totally normal for men in relationships, it has nothing to do with how appealing his partner is. If it's something that bothers you, you can find a way to voice your concerns about it without things getting weird.

  • Real and ready to play always beats fapping to porn in my opinion

  • With an unappreciated body like that, you are overdue for an upgrade. Shop around and see if you can do better. It doesn't sound like much of a stretch. Otherwise, tell him that you are ready to let him buy your new breast implants. Say "PUT UP OR SHUT UP!" If nothing else, you can boost your confidence to have men anonymously chasing you online.

  • Watching porn in a relationship is not necessarily a bad sign or unusual, but insulin you is. Leave him and don't look back.

  • Sure, as long as he doesn't become obsessed with it to the point where he becomes addicted to it. Your boy friend sounds like a real asshole though.

  • normal

  • Some. Masturbation is different from sex. That said, I don't eatch port if I'm in a committed relationship. I may still masturbate from, but it is to my SOs pictures or sexting.

    • Men are also wired to seek variety. It probable has nothing to do with you.

  • That's fucked up.
    Ye just break up with him you deserve someone who won't make you feel insecure while using you to jerk off!

  • It's normal but shouldn't be.

  • Yes.

  • Tell him that porn makes you feel insecure

    • This is the only way to tell him

  • Yes it's normal

  • Yes of course

  • Some guys view it as normal, but in my opinion it's not normal.

    What's even worse is that he's making you feel insecure by commenting on your body - dump him, he's a dick.

  • He sucks! You need to leave someone who talks like this to you.. Looking at porn and jacking off to it is normal, but saying hurtful things to your girlfriend (or wife) and making her feel insecure is a real little bitch move. Try this though.. Start watching porn with him and comment on how big the guys are and how lucky the girl in the vid is. Tell him how much you wish he had a big dick like that one.

  • I hate to break it to you but all guys your age watch porn, whether they are in a relationship or not.

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