Is it normal for her to behave like that as we are quite close or does she kinda likes me?

[Stepbrother]

I have a friend who is a girl. I have known her for at least 9 years. We trust each other. She has a boyfriend and I am single.
But , sometimes she spank me playfully and I get aroused. She also sends me dirty memes relating to me. I get turned on easily.
Ps: This is not a made up content. This is a real one.

Is it normal for her to behave like that as we are quite close or does she kinda likes me?

[Anonymous]

She’s poking fun at you, you may be understanding it differently than she plans it to be received, I have a very similar situation to yours, if you are over her and haven’t had relationship romantic and sexual feelings and thoughts about her is a big thing, if she knows about any of that, it really complicates things like it did for me in my situation, I’ve since moved on from me aspirations for her, I’m focused on other girls, but she’s my best friend and we are very real and down to earth with each other

[Wise4myage]

I think you need to tell her how much this all turns you on and see what she says. She is likely just being a tease because she knows it turns you on, and I doubt her boyfriend would like it if he found out. But just ask her.

[Stepbrother]

Yes I will ask her. But , will it be awkward for her. What if she stops talking to me knowing that i get turned on be her?

[Wise4myage]

Awkward or not, she is the one doing it. That's the chance you take, but mention how much you like it.

[Stepbrother]

I guess, this would probably make her break up with her boyfriend because i believe she trusts me more than him.

[Wise4myage]

Don't concern yourself with that, and just ask her.

[Stepbrother]

Yeah i have to ask

[Avicenna]

It's not unheard of for a female friend to do that, but I wouldn't say it's normal.

[PandaSon]

Dude just ask her its the easiest thing to do, she could just be playing or she might wanna hop on that dick but u gotta ask

[Stepbrother]

What if she is just normal and i get turned on by these casually? If i tell her, will it affect our friendship?

[PandaSon]

u can either flirt back right and see where it leads which could ruin the friendship if she does it normally or u can let it go and just not know orrr u can ask her in a joking way "hey r u flirting with me or u just mucking around" which could still ruin it but up to u

[Iron_Man]

No and its bad