Is it normal for me to be attracted to forty-year-old men?

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  • Love Is Love Love is Crazy Love is normal Love is Everything I think that if the guy really likes you he was going to be with you for sure but he also should have a chat with you and say look there's going to become a point in time where I'm just not going to function the way that I'm probably used to probably wouldn't be until it is about in the 70s but I've always felt that there should be a communication of I don't want to hold you back in life so let's make a pact right now to wear when that moment happens we both agreed we go our separate ways and you will either do that or you will stay together but it needs to be said

Most Helpful Guy

  • Yeah that's yousually how it goes, women seem to be attracted to anyone but men their own age until they are past their prime, in their mid to late 30s and or have a few kids to a coupe different baby daddies. But by time 40's roll around they find the guys their age (40s) are going after the new 20s girls.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No nothing wrong. I don't blame you. Men that are now in their 40's they were actually tough how to get mature and responsible. Plus men in their 40's are more loving protective and caring. Men our own age act still like little kids, They just want sex hook ups they don't want to get in serious relationships. I used to be against it well I am 29 and divorce my ex he is 30 and still acts like a little kid. So no I really don't see nothing wrong.

  • This is very normal. Older guys are usually more mature and make better providers. Not all but a majority who act their age.

    • My best friend found the guy I was dating too old. and she saidto me what are you doing with that old pig, whereas he is someone who looks pretty young. I was just wondering if there is a problem

    • Your friend is just judgmental and a bit shallow. I would ignore her if I were you.

    • I think he is very kind and sensible person. He is also very intelligent and cultured, but I was falling skeptical. I wonder if I have a problem. Men are my age act like children but this person is really calm and mature. I can call you the man of my dreams

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  • Attraction knows no boundaries, it can be normal or not depending on your point of view.

    Some older guys are damn hot and sexy.

  • I am attracted to a man in his 40s, he’s my husband. I think he’s pretty hot. I don’t think you have anything to worry about or be ashamed of.

  • i am 27yo and my man is 46yo.

    i have been attracted to older men since i was 14yo...

    it is normal. Especially if you grew up without a dad or strong male influence in your life.

    • Me to no dad I always was sure that's why I like older men.

    • @GenaBaby1995 do you have an older man for your SO or boyfriend or Husband? chat me if you want to know how i deal with it, especially when family and friends give me crap for dating older men.

  • It certainly wouldn't be normal for me!

    • When I'm your age I feel I'll take what I can get. I think it was Rodney Dangerfield who said "at my age I'm envious of a stiff wind."

    • @zyxacb It has never been, and will never be, normal for me to be attracted to men of any age. I am 100% heterosexual.

  • What is weird is that you know their age before you get attracted.

    i tend to get attracted then find out they are + or - 5 years different to what I thought they were lol

    you think they are 35 and find out they are 30 or 40.

  • Yes. Coming from a younger guy, 40+ yo men are more mature, financially well off, and stable than younger guys. If you're interested in their looks purely, you may have a bit of an electra complex.

  • Yes, if they don't look their age or simply look healthy, fit and hot.

  • i've always liked older not quite that old but generally

  • I would say it's unusual, but not abnormal. Interesting that you're compelled to ask, tho. What attracts you?

  • It's not abnormal for sure

  • Everybody's normal is different. Do what makes you happy.

  • It isn't that old, I sometimes see attractive females beyond 40s if their health is good.

  • Yes absolutely 😉😂

  • Yes, I meet MANY younger women that are. Some of my partners have been 20 years my junior.

  • It's completely normal for you to find some 40-year-old men attractive. I find some 60-year-old women attractive. Bernadette Peters is 74 and she still looks great -- at least she did from my 10th row seat.

  • It sure is.

  • Yeah. I am

  • Yeah. Everyone likes something different. I've been attracted to older.

  • If you are 30... yes.
    If you are 40... yes.
    If you are 50... yes.
    If you are a teen... a bit odd
    If you are 20... a bit odd.

  • Mmmm, love ❤️ older men especially online!

    • ahem ;)

    • @Still-alive Heyyy

    • oh im just an older guy passing by :P

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