Is it normal for my boyfriend to not be really turned on during foreplay and only really turned on during sex?

We start of kissing and he’s hard but not fully hard. Then he will do stuff to me and he’s still hard but has no pre cum. Then I’ll do things to him and he’s into it but only massively when he’s close to finishing.

He’s only really turned on during sex he just seems meh during the rest.

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  • If a guy's cock is hard I mean I'm no fucking expert but I know for myself it doesn't take much for a girl that I'm attracted to to make me fucking hard it doesn't mean that I have to pre come to be super fucking turned on. If I'm rock hard I'm rock hard I'm fucking interested I'm horny I'm enjoying this person that I'm with this partner she's amazing and the things that she's doing to me and for me I love to give the pleasure back so I love kissing and licking all over a woman's beautiful body especially going down on her pretty pussy. Now right when I go to put in there's times guys are so excited during foreplay that after about a minute or two he comes but that's probably because he doesn't masturbate doesn't come enough and or she's that good. Does he enjoy giving you head going down on your pussy and licking it or kissing your breasts or sucking on your nipples does he maybe even lick your ass not just kissing and all and when you go down on him do you not just go down on him do you kiss around his body and do other things to him for a play maybe even put a finger in his ass small finger so that that way you can hit his prostate while you're sucking his cock to make him come. I know I can't usually come from a blowjob unless I'm either fucking her throat or her mouth it's something I got to contribute to help out because I've never had a girl make me come otherwise.

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  • It's not abnormal for a guy to be more turned on during sex compared to foreplay. The male body is built for speed, which is why it's unusual for a guy to last more than a few minutes during intercourse. The male body is telling itself that, if it gets too excited during foreplay, it may not be able to have intercourse.

    Don't get me wrong. Most guys enjoy foreplay, but actual intercourse is more exciting.

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  • In some cases it is. After all, cold head doesn't hurt.

  • U clearly have bo understanding what being turned on means for a male

  • everyone is different. He has his preferences. As long as you both enjoy it that it's all good.

  • Trust me, he's turned on the entire time.

  • He should be rock hard from the moment you touch him. Doesn't take much for me all I have to do is look.

    • So does this mean he’s not that into me?

    • I requested to follow can you message me about this

    • Doesn't mean he's not into you but least he could do is wear a cocl ring that would help.

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  • He could have a lot more on his mind than sex. Unfortunately.

  • A lot of guys aren’t all that into foreplay. I’m hard at the first hug or kiss, but I like foreplay as much as sex.

  • Nope not normal to me at all cause I'm turned right from the start