I get that. Are there things you can do to help him be less "tired?" Have you tried learning his favorite fantasies and offering to role play them? Do you make sure you look really nice when he sees you? Are there certain items of clothing that turn him on? For me, it's classic stiletto pumps.
0 0 0 0I do walk around in a thong most of the time lol... I asked him once if he wanted me to do anything special to spice things up , he said “ ur so nasty “ and shrugged it off
My suggested next step is to sit down and in a very calm direct, matter fact and non judgmental way, look through some lingerie, aka trashy little nothings, sites and ask him which ones he likes and rate them 1-5. Then you strut around the house in them when you want to get fucked. What do you think of that idea?
I don't see how it is normal I'm 35 and want sex all the time. I don't see how he could be turning you down
0 0 0 0I don’t get it either and we’ve been together over a year now , I’m not ugly at all. I just don’t know what to do , I walk around practically half naked with my big ass all out in a thong and he will say something like “ur nasty “ but then not really approach , just okay with a cuddle and I always initiate the sex
That is so frustrating, I'm on the other end of it. I'll do some lifting before bed strip down all inviting and id get no response. As a guy if a girl walked in big beautiful ass out I'd be on that in seconds. It makes no sense to me either. Seems people just are sexually programed differently 😩
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0 8It’s not the most common scenario, but it’s not that uncommon.
0 0 0 0He is to old, and maby you can be niphomaniac. But that is a good thing for girls :)
0 0 0 0Im like you i go crazy without the passionate touch of my lady , and that seems like a low sex drive , do something different , learn about the art of hand jobs , giving him a really good hand job might wake him up
1 0 0 0It's not unusual for some guys. sex becomes another chore ! For. Many. The best thing to do is come visit me I will fix those needs
0 0 0 0Yes it's normal.. thats my fav type
0 0 0 0Ahh damn. We need to trade partners then! U said like me and he sounds like my girl. Lol.
0 0 0 0Yes, I've noticed this
0 0 0 0Sometimes yeah, maybe you need to have daytime sex , you’ll definitely get it more if you can arrange it during the day
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