Most Helpful Guys

  • If you're a girl that's never had sex before... yes. My first girlfriend was the same and we ended up only ever doing oral as I was somehow never able to ease her into it lol. But all I can say is sex is supposed to be an enjoyable thing. It may feel a little bad the first time, but you get into it and you will inevitably start loving the feeling once you get used to it. Also having someone see you fully nude may seem scary, but it's more of an accepting feeling and you feel super comfortable with them once you get used to it. My advice... just try it and you'll see how much you can love it.

  • Do you get romantic feelings for others? If so but, not sexual feelings, you may be Asexual.

    • Sometimes I have crushes but that's all. Can you describe to me exactly what sexual feelings are? If I wanna touch them does it count as sexual or not?

    • A desire to have sex of any kind with them.

    • But if I've never had sex I wouldn't know what it is actually like, right? Maybe in theory I want to have sex but in real life hell no I am not touching anyone.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • The more distant I am from sex the more it repulsed and disgusts me. I think it's perfectly normal. I also never did penetrative masturbation until after I lost my virginity. Don't know why... if I was scared or just grossed out by my body.

    But don't stress. You may be on the Gray/ ace spectrum if you are truly worried.

    • Thanks! ❤

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • From this, are you a virgin and done nothing sexual but the thought of it terrifies you?

    or

    Are you not a virgin and literally having sex terrifies you?

    • The above one.

    • That’s to be understandable and for me is a relief, the second option is the harder one. There are 100’s of reasons why sex terrifies us all, and you are not alone in this. Every young guy is terrified of cocking it up, or not being any good etc. Then you have girls some of whom are terrified of the thought of penetration or even just been touched. Yes what you feel is normal

  • I'd say no.
    Considering that it's one of the standard natural activities that the human being, as part of the animal kingdom is MADE to execute, something might be wrong.
    Generally in the dome.

  • what about it terrifies you?

  • depends why

  • As a virgin it’s the fear of the unknown. Do you masturbate?

    • Not really. It hurts.

    • Oh, if it hurts to touch yourself that’s part of the fear. It shouldn’t hurt at all, where is the pain?

    • Everywhere.

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  • Are you a virgin?

  • You’ve got issues, talk to a psychiatrist.

    • Why?

  • Really why

    • I feel disgusted when I think about it. I dont mind other people having sex though. I just dont wanna ever do it personally.

    • Maybe you feel differently when you fall in love

    • How I feel about sex isn't dependent on another person. Also you can have love without sex and you can have sex without love as well.

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