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Is it normal in relationships to have mismatch sex drives?

I don't have much experience in the relationship department so for anyone who has has many relationships. Is it normal for you & your partner to have mismatch sex drives? Bc me an the person I've been seeing have good emotional, intellectual compatibility but when it comes to sex, it seems like we're aren't seeing eye to eye. Either I'm in the mood he's not or when he's in the mood I'm not. Is this a sign of incompatibility?
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  • it depends how you both are with each other when one of you wants it and the other doesn't... if you are happy for them to masturbate or want them to be happy with you masturbating then i can't see an issue

  • No that’s just timing.
    I have a high sex drive and girls I’ve known didn’t, until the last one I’ve just met.
    She is the only one that’s even come close to me. We’ve been having fun for 6 months now.

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  • Yes normal

  • Completely normal

  • yeah, a little bit is normal. if it's a lot, you probably have to think about if you can long term live with that and cut your losses, if you can't.

  • Well i can relate that... but in mood compatibility lol
    When I'm annoyed by her, she's happy, when she's annoyed by me i just want to go smooth

  • its ok... soonly u will know what turns him on and what not.. so when u aren't in mood he will do something to seduce u and make ur mood and vice versa and u both can fuck each other all the time when one is in mood

  • It's not uncommon, it's part of why I prefer the poly lifestyle.

  • How long have you been together? Cause I experienced it before but after a while it worked out with time

    • We've known eachother for like 5 years. Been having sex for about 3

    • Alright, well is it often this happens? Does either or you perhaps do solo things instead sometimes?

    • Yes we are complicated, we're not together. Just friends with benefits

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  • Yes it's common

  • This is totally mismatch

    • yeah.. but slowly they would start to seduce and get fucked

    • @ashish804 I hope

    • yeahh.. then they could really have much sexxx

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  • Normal because male and female sex drives are different depending on age.

    • I just feel like if you're compatible with someone then everything would match & things would be easy but I don't know

    • That makes total sense. In reality it's a bit different. Men and women have different sex drives at different ages. E. g., women sex drives are at its highest when they hit mid 30's , whereas men sex drives dip around mid to late 30's. This doesn't apply to everyone , but it's a biological thing.

  • Yes my girlfriend literally gets mad at me for always having boners around her family and when we’re in public and I always tell her it won't go away until you do something about it

  • Is sex something you really like or are you just the romantic type?

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