Is it normal that I dislike men because of how obsessed they are with sex?

And when I say "dislike" I don't mean that I hate them or anything, it's just that I don't want to be in a relationship with any man because of how obsessed they are with sex.
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  • Yes 100%. It can be annoying and make it seem like they have nothing that they value or care about but sex. Who wants to associate with someone so one sided and not complex? Makes you wonder if they have anything else going for them as desperateness isn't attractive at all. I was like this this past summer. Fortunately, I have a partner who has a high sex drive like me but doesn't make everything about sex and has so many layers to him. He also doesn't try to coerce me, manipulate me, or whine about anything sexual so that's nice.

    • Also, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 22. There are men of all ages with common sense and respect. They all aren't sex crazed believe it or not haha.

    • Thank you!!

Most Helpful Girl

  • It’s hormones. Not everyone is a jerk about it. There are lots of really good men out there.

    • There are more men in the world then women, it's obvious that there will be more sexually obsessed guys out there, she need to understand that men are very diverse in number.

Most Helpful Guys

  • First of all, that is a poor, stereotypical view of men. Yes, males love sex. But to call that love an ‘obsession’ is not accurate or fair. Nor is it fair for you to decide to ‘dislike’ all men based on this faulty assumption. Give guys a chance! And you will see, we aren’t so bad!

    • But you have nothing else to offer but sex, no personality, just sex.

    • It sounds like you have had interactions with some lousy guys. And yes, there are lousy guys out there. Too many probably. (there are lousy gals too) But trust me, we are not all pigs with a one track mind. Some of us are introspective, intellectual, thoughtful and fun! Don’t give up! Good guys do exist!

    • Thank you!

  • You're a baby so its okey for you to feel that way. When u grow up a bit and educate yourself more on topic you might start to see bigger picture rather than judging whole world based on some teenagers in your school. Thats a small view.

    • Okay, thank you.

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  • this is an irrational thought. Most are not "obsessed" with sex

    • Please explain

    • Well i for example am not, i have life and other hobbies i prefer to enjoy as well. Obsessed sounds like they have no life.

  • You are under 18, so it okay for you to not be in a relationship.

    • Okay.

  • No, that’s pretty normal.

  • I'm wondering why you are so negative about sex. It is one of the most basic things about being a human (or any sexually reproducing animal). I often say "Life is messy and wet. You might as well enjoy it."

    • She's not being negative. Someone who has an obsession with anything isn't attractive to most women because it indicates they don't care about anything but their obsession.

    • @thatonearies I'm not sure what she means by "obsessed". It's a prime motivator for most of us. I wouldn't call myself "obsessed" but I'm not going to date someone who has no interest.

    • I think she means someone who always constantly wants sex and that's all they can think about. From the partner's perspective of someone like that, it can lead to coercion, manipulation, assault, or rape. I have a high sex drive but someone who's obsessed with sex is a major turn off. Makes you think what do they have to offer? What are their values besides sex? Do they really like me or am I just a convince? Can we go out and do something without it being sexual? Can we watch a movie without me being groped? No one wants to deal with that lol. Many women dump guys over this.

  • Well, you're going to hate me when I say it really turns me on when a woman is so annoyed with us about that. It's something hot about a female getting upset about men wanting sex.

    • Okay, I know you said that just to make me mad

    • I did not actually. Although I knew it probably would happen.

    • I'm not mad though don't worry haha

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  • A lot of girls do. It's normal.

    • OK thanks!

  • its normal i think, loads of girls are like that

    • Probably.

  • I am like you
    But women are also obsessed with it

    • I'm not obsessed with it. I'm more looking for a personality.

    • *Most normal women

  • That's perfectly fine. It's just a preference.

    • Okay

  • That's how they are programmed. Especially at your age.

    • That's why I dislike them. I feel like they have no emotions and they aren't interested in anything but sex and money.

    • Nah, that isn't the case. Everyone has emotions. Just because you don't understand something doesn't mean it does or doesn't exist. They are trying to figure out life while their biological programming is telling them to fuck everything. Men with money can have sex more than those without. That is how society works. They value sex so they will value anything that helps them have sex.

    • I think I will stay away from men then😀 I am saving till marriage and since men my age are pretty much atheist and only want sex I will have no luck.

  • Alright.

    What is wrong with wanting to have sex with my partner, the love of my life and all that jazz?

    Or with somebody we really connect with and want to make each other feel awesome?

    • Because that's the ONLY thing you men want and the thing you want THE MOST.

    • Why don't you date your friends, without any sexual attraction towards them? Only and most don't go well together in one sentence. Tell me, what do you bring to the table, what do you think a guys should like? And what do you look for in a guy?

    • I'm not saying sexual attraction is a bad thing, but it's a turn off when that's the only thing guys care about and value. I would bring love and affection, gifts for him, words of affirmation, quality time, money, clothes, children etc. I think guys should like and appreciate the girls personality instead of thinking spending time with a girl is annoying unless they're having sex. I look for a guy who's talkative, who can match my energy and doesn't think I'm annoying.

  • Yeah and unfortunately at your age the majority are sex obsessed

    • Why though?

    • Puberty n shit I don't know

  • No it is ok, person should be balanced.

    • Okey!

  • It’s a bit abnormal. Did something happen to you?

    • Nope

  • Sounds like you have a sexual inhibition.

    Why do you blame males for that?

    • I don't know what a sexual inhibition is

  • Give it time. And it’s perfectly normal if that’s how you feel.

    • Okay thanks

  • Is it normal that I dislike women because of how obsessed they are with money?

    • Yes it is

  • ahahahah LOL

    girls are more obsessed then guys of sex

    • No that's false.

    • That's true! Y'all loose your fertility after 45 and aren't gonna have a baby after that, most girls are more obsessed with it but they are professionals in hiding it.

    • porn says other wise

  • No more normal than to dislike women for biological female things they can't change.

    • Yeah, I'll stay single

  • normal. keep loving men

    • If I do I'll end up heart broken

    • I commented without seeing your age. But if that's how you feel, drop that thought immediately.

    • Why?

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