Is it normal that I physically can't have sex because mentally in my head I feel that it gives women power over me if I do so?

And I never like to appear weak physically or mentally in front of women who I consider my natural rivals by mother nature.

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  • That is a strange way to look at it. I always feel it's perceived as the other way around. You are penetrating the woman invading her body, putting part of you inside of her that she has little or no control over.

    The same if a woman gives you oral very often a woman has to kneel down or from your perspective you are looking down on her as she services your needs.

    I hope these thoughts can help improve your confidence.

    For the girls reading this don't worry my girlfriend gets her fair share of cowgirl position and oral for her too!

Most Helpful Guy

  • It takes training bro. The strength of a man isn't his ability to dominate but his force of will to control himself.

    There was this one time I met a girl and we started to get on. I stripped her pants. Then I noticed this strange odor from her down under. She wasn't clean down there.

    I suggested we take a shower together. I also want to clean myself before I would let her suck on my junior. I am a clean guy. She refused. Blaming some shampoo and such. I think it was her make up talking.

    I was having a boner at the time and I just wanted to stick it in and be done with it.

    I didn't. I just put on my pants and tell her I would take her home. She was upset. But I would like to have clean and odorless sex with a girl rather than sniffing her stinky vagina.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You literally came out of a vagina.


    Your views are unhealthy and have no doubt led to social and psychological issues.


    See a psychologist and get that treated before it’s too late.

  • Women are your rivals? Haha
    I think you physically can't have sex because your "rivals" won't have sex with you. You "rivals" don't even pay attention to you or know you're alive.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • This is some self defeating thinking right here.

  • Women aren’t your rivals. Try to be more vulnerable around them.

  • That’s weird

  • It is true. Sex gives women power over men. I think sex is like opium for men... and women are dealers that benefit from it usually without remorse.

  • that's fkn retarded. but you do you

  • How would that be normal?

  • You need therapy because this is not normal.

    • Why?