Is it normal that I want sex more as I get older?

Back then when I was in my late teens to mid 20s, I didn't really care about sex. In fact, I avoided sex because I felt like it was too intimate. I didn't like sleeping around either. But now that I am in my late 20s, I feel like my sex drive is so much more pronounced. For the first time in my life, craving sex was a reason why I couldn't focus on my work. I've never wanted to be rubbed in all the right places so much ever before. Right now, for the first time ever, I am really enjoying casual sex with guys. It fulfills me and makes me so happy and satisfied. I don't even care if people look down on it. Sex is beautiful and passionate, fulfilling and feels absolutely amazing. You only live once. why care about what others think? Better to be happy and satisfied with life than live with regret.

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  • I think it's normal.

    Though generally, women are sexually active during adolescence, they reach their peak orgasmic frequency in their 30 s, and have a constant level of sexual capacity up to the age of 55 with little evidence that aging affects it in later life.

    One study showed that women between 27 and 45 had more frequent and more intense sexual fantasies than younger or older women. They also had more sex and were more likely to have it sooner in a relationship.

    I'm happy for you when you said "Sex is beautiful and passionate, fulfilling and feels absolutely amazing. You only live once. why care about what others think? Better to be happy and satisfied with life than live with regret."

    I agree with you 100%. Have fun! You're lucky to be so vital, healthy and full of life. Enjoy every minute.

  • Yes it is completely normal for a woman to be more sexually active and labido ramp up. When men get are labido slows down. Usually the sexual peak for a women is 3Os and even the 40s. Men is usually 20s and 3Os.

    • Thank for the MHO. I hoped it helped and made you understand.

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  • Your sex drive increases often with age. The body is always changing and some of those changes affect your hormones. You might even notice that sometimes you crave sex more than other times. There may be some days when you are more horny than others. May even be certain times of the mouth or the year.

    If you have sex often or masturbate, that keeps your sex drive up. There's an old expression "If you don't use it, you lose it," and that kind of applies to this.

    There's nothing wrong with wanting sex. It's a human need and a person can go crazy if they don't get it.

  • Women hit their sexual peak by mid 30’s to 40’s

    • im 27

    • You are getting there. Late 20’s is higher than early 20’s but you will probably notice even stronger libido over the next several years as you keep your body healthy.

    • dude its already high enough. I can't imagine it being any higher. I don't have time to have sex everyday.

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  • With you craving sex so much and wanting to be rubbed in all the right places, and casual being acceptable, do you now have sex with more than one person at a time, or want to?

    • why would it matter if i do it with more than 1 person at a time?

    • You said, "I am really enjoying casual sex with guys" and "You only live once. why care about what others think?" So just curious if you are now doing it with more than one at a time. I am not judging, just wondering.

    • i don't understand why you're so curious to ask a useless question.

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  • Very common for women to get a higher sex drive at your age. One of the things that I miss about being in my 30's. The women who I dated seemed to love sex more.

  • Most women get hornier as they get older, and probably get horniest in their 40s and 50s. Science often says men peak sexually in their late 20s or 30s but I don't know, it's a lot of men out there older than me who are some seriously horny monsters.

    But it's nothing you should worry about. You should be embracing it.

    • actually a woman's horniest is 30-40s. I'm in my late 20s, nearing 30

    • You're in your late 20s and assuming women's horniest is in their 30s and 40s? Lol. I believe beyond the shadow of a doubt that it's women in their 40s and 50s, especially since I've slept with some and even flirted with others. They are way more intense about sex than younger women, trust me.

    • The 30s
      Sex drive peaks in the 30s for many women. In this decade, women often experience sexual fantasies that are more intense and frequent than those experienced by women of other ages. Additionally, many women in their 30s not only have more sex but are also more open to having it early in relationships. Given that women gradually become less fertile with age and need to have more sex to get pregnant, this increase in sex drive is widely thought to be caused by the body’s biological clock.

      Many women have children in their 30s. Pregnancy causes many hormonal changes that can increase or decrease libido. Also, breastfeeding and being a mother can alter your interest in sex, with many women having less time for sex when they’re parenting.

      The 40s
      For many women, the uptick in the sex drive that begins in their 30s continues until their mid-40s. However, perimenopause, which is the transitional period before menopause, occurs at some point in their 40s. So, estrogen levels begin to decline. This can cause reduced sex drive and vaginal dryness.

      The 50s
      In their 50s, most women experience a significant decline in sex drive, along with weaker orgasms, reduced sexual function, and vaginal dryness, because of menopause. However, women can still maintain a healthy and fulfilling sex life, with treatments like bio-identical hormone therapy available to offset symptoms of menopause. Many mothers in their 50s whose children leave home experience increased libido as a result.

      visionarycentreforwomen.com/.../

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  • You sound normal to me. I'm getting more sexual arouse and horny than in my 20s

    • science says young guys tend to be hornier than old guys. but its the opposite for women.

    • @Asker It's something how our bodies change with age.

  • We give less shit about stuff as we get older so we relax more. And when we focus on the sex it self more we enjoy it more.

  • It’s all based on hormones

  • Different people, believe different things, differently

    For example, I can't stand trump

  • Normal

  • Definitely normal. I want it every day but hard for me right now so I just have to stick with myself.

  • Yeah, especially for women. Guys stay pretty steady with their sex drives through their teens and 30s and drops slightly. Women’s increase steadily

  • I'd say quite normal

  • Be right over.

  • Wow! Nice bedtime stories to read here.😊

  • Everyone is different so it's hard to say.

  • Most women do

  • The more you understand sex the more you want it.

  • Sex drive changes

  • Shouldn't be hard to get since you're a woman