Is it normal that my boyfriend gets a boner all the time just by me sitting next to him and having my arms wrapped around him?

He is constantly getting a boner over and over again even when we’re just sitting on the couch and my arms are around him I wonder if that’s normal?
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If this guy is so turned on, why have I had to initiate everything:(?
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  • It's normal.

  • Yes, it's normal. It's different if you have to initiate everything. I'd be all over you. Lol

  • Sometimes men get erection out of nowhere or due to any little sexy thing

  • Its very normal because he's probably inexperienced. As for initiating things, you need to mention that too him.

    • He’s not lol he has slept with at least 3-4 girls before me

    • You must really turn him on then. :)

  • It's normal

  • If he's attracted to you, poppin boners all the time is normal.

  • what age is he?

    • 23 now

    • it sounds like he's trying to be a little bit pervy on you. it is not normal :)

  • Yeah that just means he is really attracted to you and has a high sex drive.

    • By the way I am very proud that you finally have a boyfriend :).

    • Aw thank you 😂 you didn’t think that I would get one lol?

    • No I knew that you would have. You just were holding yourself back and were your own worst enemy. :)

  • Yep thats normal. Lol for a guy that age it will happen.

  • yes it is lol, we can't control when we get a hard-on, when even my 8 year old niece sits on my lap this happens sometimes, and I have NEVER had any wrong thoughts about her,,,
    It's just biology,,,
    Must feel awkward for you I guess?,,,
    We don't decide to get hard, we don't really have much control tbh,,,
    Hope that helps,,,

  • It should be a good thing, you turn him on

  • Yes it’s quite normal. Maybe he’s finding you hot. What kind dress do you wear?

    • Different things. I just wear skirts and dresses that are not too short and a lot of times I put shorts underneath

    • Ok. I guess he becomes horny when you wrap arms with him. Did he ever initiate getting intimate with you?

    • He has but it’s mostly been me he’s really a gentleman

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  • I would hope so

  • yea i really think it is normal🤭 no seriously it's is

    • *it..

    • @sweetandshyxo LOL. you're a dick.

    • @1CentWorth why?

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  • Yes. Especially when you are so hot. Take it as a compliment. There is always a way to get rid of a boner. You could give him a helping HAND.

    • I have just it’s pretty scary to do in my parents house

    • Ok I understand, but don't worry about it. It's natural for a man to get hard any time. Take his mind off of it, talk about football or his gran.

  • Yes. It is normal. One thing is physical arousal and other thing is to have the courage and drive to start things

  • Well normal for me anyways, but Id take that as he finds you insanely sexually attractive. What do you feel about him constantly getting hard next to you?

    • I feel turned on

    • Well do you do anything about it everytime he is hard?

    • Not everytime because we have no privacy but I have a few times from the three months that we have been together

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  • you just turn him on, it's a good thing.

  • No, not at your age. Just suck him off. He will be happy man.

  • Very normal but should not always be up to you to initiate every move

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