Is it normal that my husband has never jacked off to me?

My husband and i have been together 11 years he jacks off to girls twerking on youtube, i sent him videos of myself twerking and just videos of myself to turn him on and he told me he has never jacked off to them ever in all of the 11 years we been together is that normal?

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  • Not really. Doesn’t mean he’s a jerk either for not doing it. Maybe when he was younger or when you two first started noticing each other he may have done so. But now he has you, if he wants to have you I’m sure you’d be more than willing to entertain him. So I would think that’s better than him beating off to you. Plus here’s the other thing. To men, beating off to pics or videos of other women is a fantasy, other than what they look like naked you really don’t know them personally so you can imagine them in really raunchy, dirty, nasty, vile ways like w porn. But when it comes to our women we know you more as a person, w more respect for you than just a sex box. Plus the video or pic of another girl is something new and exciting. That sounds shitty cause it’s like ok am I not exciting? Sometimes it can get boring, so maybe doing things you’ve never done before may help. But honestly this is just something a lot of us men do. Doesn’t mean we don’t love you, maybe sometimes it does if he isn’t into you anymore. But myself for example I don’t do that w my girls pics or videos. But when I get a hold of her man she drives me crazy. I don’t know how to really explain this as a male to a female as your thoughts aren’t that of how men think. It may be something you may not be able to fully comprehend.

    • He literally said never ever not even in the beginning. 😞

    • Lol I doubt it. Maybe he’s embarrassed to say so. Usually a man wants to be w a girl based purely on looks in the beginning, which usually means she has a nice body w an attractive face. He may just not want to say it.

    • Maybe , its Just doesn't make sense why he would admit to jackin off to porn stars girls on youtube, and other things but wen it comes to me its a strong no. Never.

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  • From my experience, it is 'odd', but my wife, was then, VERY ODD, in that she said she never masturbated?

    Surely your husband must have jacked off to you at some point?

    In my 20's I had a girlfriend that after I 'broke the masturbation ice' with her, she and I talked and did it all the time... and neither of us found it strange to do. She even told me she masturbated to other men she saw when we were out socially, and it did, in fact, get me hot that she did that. All part of expressing your sexuality, openly. I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED HER. She and I broke up (unfortunately) and she dated other men at work, and later called me back six months later unsatisfied with her current lover (s) She said she told this guy: "I know you jack off, now show me how you do it"! Said he was 'dumb struck' with her boldness.

    Hmmm Different 'strokes' (or not) for different men I guess...

    One "friend' I had on line told me that if her husband jacked off to someone else she would divorce him ASAP. Now THAT is strange?

Most Helpful Girls

  • That's very weird. Most people masturbate to their partners. I'd be feeling really insecure if my husband didn't especially if I made a effort to send pics/vids.

    • Send them to me.🙂🙃

    • @Guardian45 you gotta marry me first then I'll send the noodies

    • Pick a date!

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  • That is a little weird. But maybe because he has the real thing. With the other girls he can only do it virtually. But at least he's not out cheating

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  • Maybe the choreography is lacking? Post a link we'll let you know. Just kidding. No in all seriousness, yeah that's pretty weird. I had a LOT of fun with videos my ex and I made together. Did I still enjoy a good youtube twerk as much as the next guy? Sure. You can't eat fillet mignon and lobster every day. But to say never in 11 years? I doubt I went a week.

    • 🤣🤣 right thats the unbelievable part. Lol i always assume he did both but he dead ass swears never to me and i dnt see a reason why he would lie about that. Just sooo odd lol

    • Did he way why not? There's zero way that's not odd, but I was just curious. In your honor I'll jiggle the screen so the little pink icon with the question mark bounces and use that on my next break, then you can say somebody did.

  • No I wouldn't say it is

    • I didn't think so either 🙁

  • That's surprising. Tell him you'd love to watch him jack off, then encourage him with some nudity and dirty talk. You'll both enjoy it.

    • We do stuff like this, he can do it in front of me we are very sexual he just can't bust to videos of me no matter how hard he tries,

  • You actually discussed this? In the main, do you have a sufficient intimate relationship?

  • Youtube? That's even sadder than watching porn in general.

    I'll play the devils advocate and say that he doesn't want to defile you as a mere sex object to fulfill his momentary needs.

  • This most likely won't make you feel any better but girl I will (jack off to you).

  • Maybe he's shy :D

  • No I’m sorry to say - and that’s crazy! How can you not want to masturbate to the girl you love? I admit that yes of course when I masturbate various girls come into the picture but somehow Always when I’m ready to ejaculate while kneeling in front of my clean toilet bowl the image locks into my wife either sucking my penis or she’s masturbating my penis making my semen shoot out like a canon making the drops or ropes splash into the toilet water. 👍🙂.

  • Why should he have to? He's your husband.

  • Uhh ya totally odd and not normal! I jerk to my wife's pics and vids often! Y'all need to talk about it cuz that's an issue.

  • I love jacking off to my wife. I do think it's usual that he doesn't enjoy your pics and vids that way.

  • I think I've jerked off to my girlfriend of almost 5 years maybe 5 times. So if I've jacked off 2k times since we started dating, then I've jacked off to her 0.25% of the time.

    • Even its 0.25% its happened lol i wouldve beem happy with a 0.25% at this point 🤣🤣

    • You're saying he's never once?

    • Yes thats what his claiming.

  • That's shitty actually. Dude can't rub just one out to his lady? I've had past girlfriends where we took turns getting each other off usually with submissive/dominant roleplay.

  • yea this ain't the 1970s and your not in a porn magazine

  • Sounds as you’re a good wife 😊
    Any update then?

  • Hard to say why he doesn’t.. I love to sit across from my girl and both of us masturbate until we cum.

    • Yes we can do that also he just can't to do it to videos of me. Even if he tries.

    • You are in a tough situation. When you fuck, does he try to make you cum a lot? Does he cum more than once?

  • Very normal, in fact! Studies have shown that this is actually normal

  • Either he's lying or he prefers The Real Deal, as I certainly do!

  • what an asshole

    • Yump 😕

    • A good husband should always jerk off to his wife

  • I never even masturbated to any of my girlfriends

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