Is it normal that my nephew is sexually attracted towards me?

He was here yesterday. I opened the door wearing short shorts. He is 16 year old. Hugged me and got an erection afterwards. Was not intentional on my part to get him aroused.
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  • He's 16, might not have even been you. Boners come and go like breezes at 16. However, sexual attraction is overwhelming at that age. Any hotness, even familial, can stir inspiring thoughts and feelings.
    In that respect, it's pretty normal. If he's got the full-on hots for you, that's unusual but no cause for alarm unless he makes a move. I know a lot of guys and girls with a, "If they weren't a relative..." fantasy.

    • I'm aftaid he fantasizes about me. Has masturbated in my bathroom.

    • Don't sweat it. There's a difference between fantasizing about a beautiful woman, and yearning to have sex with your aunt. Tell his parents in confidentiality so you can be sure they've had the talk. You only have to be worried if he makes advances on you.

    • True that.

  • I would say normal. A penis at that age is literally on autopilot and has a mind of it's own. I don't think he was sexually attracted specifically to you, just turned on because he was in close contact with a woman.

    • Soooo true.

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  • I think it's normal. I mean, he's a teenager and he can't really control who he finds attractive. You're his aunt sure, but mainly you're woman to him

    • Won't those teens care if they are related by blood? I mean that is absurd.

    • Oh come on he's 16, it's like major time guys get unexpected boners. They're hormonal. It would be weirder if he got boner hugging his mom. How often do you see him?

    • Twice or thrice a year.

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  • It's Normal.
    Try and make sure when your Nephew is around, You Dress... Not Down.
    More appropriately, If you Know Joe is Coming. xx

    • Dress more appropriately when he is around. Re read. xx

    • Thanks for the Like. xx

    • Yeah I got it now. I should resort to that because I am normally in short shorts at home.

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  • For heaven's sake he's 16yrs old!
    And what makes you think for one moment that he's got any sexual interest in you whatsoever?

    • He stared at me the whole day! At my legs!

    • So what he did. It obviously means that you were watching him all day to have noticed that.

    • *So what if he did*

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  • He's in puberty that's completely normal. He's most likely not actually sexually attracted to yku

    • Maybe but he kept on staring at my legs whole day.

  • If he is 16 it might not even be because its you, just because he is 16 if you know what i mean.

    But it could happen getting those feelings for family members.

    • Related by blood. Still?

    • There are people that are especially into it. I'm not saying that its the case with your nephew, but it could be possible

    • Yes but it would be absurd of him to think of me in such a way.

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  • he is a 16yr old boy so yeah its normal

  • Due to age factor.

  • This had happened to me.. it is just the age matter.. don't worry.. he could be innocent..

    By the way, are u hot? :D

    • Okay. I do get a lot of male attention.

    • Haha.. next time when you hug him, don't squeeze your melons to him.. give a gentle one..

    • I never squeeze them. Always a gentle hug.

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  • its a hormonal age. he's most likely not sexually attracted towards you. he's just easy to "set off" at the Moment lol. If he begins advancing on you though, thats not normal

    • He ogled whole day.

    • That's normal too. he would be like that to any female dressed that way. its hard for him to help. Its uncomfy, but it is normal. If he ever gets a bit too touchy or stares in on your privacy (changing, shower, etc) that's when its not normal and needs shut down.

    • He did not stare at me while changing or in shower. But when I bent over to pick clothes out of the washing machine, he was staring at my ass and thighs.

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  • That happens.

  • he's probably not attracted towards u he's 16 at that age u get them at the worst and most embarrassing times

    • Oh is it? He ogled whole day. Excited to me in short clothes probably?

    • * to see me

    • do u want him to be?

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  • Ofc it's normal..

  • Yeah it’s normal literally every guy going through puberty is like that because our dicks have a mind of their own we don’t control them

  • Perfectly normal. He's looking at you as a woman not his aunty. I so wanna see what you look like now tho lol

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  • Normal at that age. You have to be concerned when he starts paying you special attention.

  • Hey when I was 16, if the wind blew too hard I would get an erection 😂

    It's not you... its hormones lol

  • 16 year old boys would get an erection if a light breeze hits him. I wouldn’t read too much into it.

    • Wtf a light breeze? 😂

    • Wind.

  • A little HJ and all will be good...

  • Well he's a teen, he's attracted to anything female. You included. And if you're hot it's even worse.

  • Pretty normal. Guys at that age want to bone everything

    • If it gets bad let his parents know

    • Tysm yes

    • No problem good luck dont let him poke ya anymore lol

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  • Yes.

  • Normal

  • Today 😃😁 yeah it very much is

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