Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I'm a 15 year old girl and I am sexually and romantically attracted to older men. I'm just not attracted to Justin Bieber or guys in my highschool like my friends. I don't find that age category or look attractive at all. I just feel like college age men (20s) and boys at my school are p*ssys and they all have such a self righteous, cocky attitude which is such a turn off to me personally. Right now my biggest celebrity crush is Jefferey Dean Morgan (currently stars as Negan from the Walking Dead.) Maybe I'm just attracted to men with expierence or maturity? I also am attracted to my teacher who is a similar age (mid to late 40s) and I just don't like any of the boys that are at my school.
So my question is, is this normal or is it completely weird?
Is it normal to be attracted to older men?
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10 20Weirds how can you be attracted to men who have wrinkles? I find it really unattractive. In my country we say if a man is 40 and not married either he have a problem (is weird, a cheater, etc...) or gay.
It's really weird to be attracted by guys that old. When I was 15 I was attracted to guys my age and those in their early 20 but never older.
HAHA, 30yrs old is wrinkles now? WOW.
@GraveTruth Did I say 30 ? No. I was talking about guys in their 40 (the one she's attracted to) And you shouldn't be offended none every young girls want to date a guys in their late 30. The majority of girls prefer guys of their own age.
Ok, let me change my sentence. HAHA, 40yr old is wrinkles now? WOW. The thing is men get better looking throughout their much later than women. A guy who is like 19yrs old doesn't have a filled in body yet and they not manly at all. Heck, you seen Biebers mexican few hair mustache thing? A guys prime is usally 30yrs - 35 Women, on the other hand have their prime at 16yrs - 25.
@GraveTruth at 40 everyone have wrinkles and it's the other ways around honestly... Men are better younger in their 20 because after they became grandpa and it's boring. Women get better with age like wine. At least it's how things work in my country. A 16 years old girls is see like a baby not a women.
So according to you 40 is old and unattractive. Good luck in life, kiddo. If you think a wrinkle is a deal breaker you are going to be screwed when you want more than being used as a sexual tool by guys.
@GraveTruth No because the older a women are the more chic and elegant she's and lots of guys perfer mature women than younger one so
May I know which country you belong from? 😅😅
@jasonjk Just watch this. It explain a bit. France.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFfb9HVXxnw
yeah I think its somewhat normal to be attracted to older guys
It is normal. Some people won't like it if you aren't attracted to the same kinds of people they are attracted to, but it is normal.
Especially being attracted to your teacher, if they are a good teacher, and seem like they care about you, then that is normal too. If you intend to act on that, just add him on facebook or something near the end of the school year, and then wait until the school year ends before going out with him so he won't lose his job.