I was always excluded because of my bisexuality, they always had a fake sincerity towards me and I wonder if it would be the right decision to hide it now?
Your two big questions are "is it normal" and "is it the right decision to hide it".
For the normal question, I'd tell you that you're you. And you're good. Bisexuality isn't necessarily as common as the other sexual identities (depending on who you talk to or what studies you read) BUT if that's you, then you are normal for you. Embrace that. Doesn't matter what normal is for me or anyone else.
As for hide it, you have to balance whatever pain, frustration, internal angst you have over keeping it in versus any issues you'll get from being open about it. Like, if your family will shun you, you might decide better to not tell them. Or it doesn't matter and the freedom of being able to talk about it is liberating. I think you'll find, though, that a lot of folks are accepting and the folks that aren't may not be worth having in your life.
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It takes a lot of courage to show the world who you really are. I know what it's like to be "different" from the rest of the world and how the world treats those who are not the same.
I feel that you would be happier in the end if you did not hide. It takes courage but in the end it pays off.
I had and still have trouble showing myself. For the longest time I would create masks to hide myself. But it is exhausting and I've found that when I can have a connection with someone who can see the real me it is wonderful.
0 0 0 0When I first started to discover this in myself (when I'm 12-16 years old), I was showing it to my environment and later on I was bullied. I still doubt myself (I'm 19) maybe I'm not bisexual, but when I have contact with my bff, I feel aroused does that make me bisexual?
I know how it is to be bullied. Self-doubt too. Being aroused by your bff might mean you're bi, but it's still early days. Have you tried exploring further? I know that's easier said than done! It can be hard to open up and it can hurt when you do.
My bff and my siblings know that I am bisexual. My brother did not welcome it and was a bit cold towards it. My mom and other relatives regard it as heresy. and thought that my psychology had deteriorated, so I told them that my psychology had improved and I ignored such a thing. And I've never had sex before because of family pressures and always being ostracized etc. Maybe that's why I'm not sure that I'm bi. Even sometimes I think I'm ocd I don't know I'm so confused. (and sorry for my English that's not my mother tongue🙈)
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As human beings, we have a great gift, our minds. We can use our minds to like whatever we want. Why is it that you like certain games or places? Why do you want to pursue a certain career? We all have our likes. The real question is, what is most beneficial?
Relationships are about love but where that love comes from varies. In a same sex marriage, you might find love with each other but you won't ever find the love that comes from having children together. You have to ask yourself if simply liking something now will benefit you in the long term. You don't want to end up bitter and upset.
1 0 0 0If you are not sure, then you are probably not bisexual.
0 0 0 1Cause I've never had sex before so how can I sure
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0 18"Normal" has different meanings.
Is bisexuality the most common form of sexual orentation? No, it is not.
Is it so rare as to be considered a fringe, outlier positiion? No.
0 0 0 0No, it's normal to be heterosexual, and bisexuality and homosexuality are the results of differing degrees of coping with abuse and/or trauma.
0 0 0 0Straight people do not think about f*cking others of the same gender. If you think about doing that, you are objectively NOT straight, whatsoever. Not in any capacity. You would be queer, which makes you mostly gay. If you're thinking about getting busy with your female friend, then that is the total opposite of being straight. So the fact you're even thinking about this, means you are objectively queer, NOT heterosexual!
0 0 0 0Bisexuality is kinda awesome. Just be what comes naturally
0 1 0 0Being a queer is pretty common among women, so I don't think that you should hide it.
0 0 0 0The first thing you need to able to do is respect and tolerate other people's sexuality. If you can't align with society. If you can you can be open with your own sexuality because you have put boundaries on it and don't invade others personal space against their will.
0 0 0 0More so for women than men.
0 0 0 0Normal or not normal? Does such a question even make sense? I'm not convinced sex to have a gender at all. We are as we are, and if you suspect to be bisexual, at least there must be some reasons that made you aware having feelings for as well girls as guys. Considering you're still very young, a preference will probably emerge, and if on top you're falling in love, there will be no doubt at all anymore, because when falling in love, it's with one particular person, guy, girl, or in-between ;0)
0 0 0 0I'm assuming you're a woman so I'm going to speak from that standpoint women love cute and pretty things even in the childhood Days as little girls the cuter the prettier the better it's just how it is for females. I can safely tell you that almost every woman in my life all but for one that I've dated or I've had any kind of relationship with they were bisexual and one of the reasons they were drawn to me because I was very attractive for a man.
0 0 0 0More girls are bi sexual than men
0 0 0 0Why do men usually think this way? I'm not sure I'm bisexual yet. But when I get close to a woman I feel sexually aroused
That’s what you call bi curious
as you are not sure if you are or not the likelihood is that you are because most straight people do not appear to question it as much
If you feel your friends can't accept you as they are, seek out new acquaintances and let the importance of your present ones fade until they appear to become more accepting of who you are and the challenges you have been facing.
But in reality they are unlikely to ALL be accepting of who you might be out of fear that you might want to fuck them without their consent0 0 0 0Completely , especially when you love/sexually attracted to both women and men.
0 0 0 0here's a simple question... If given the opportunity do you feel a desire for the same sex and opposite sex?
0 0 0 0I think it’s a lot more common for girls. I’d say half of my good gfs I know real well have told me they have been with other girls at lest to try it.
0 0 0 0Don't worry about identifying it or labeling it right now, just go with what you feel and see where it takes you and if you feel more then proceed with those feelings
0 0 0 0Bi girls are hot
0 0 0 0Though homosexuality is roughly equal between men and women, bisexuality is far more common in women. Bisexual women are easily the largest portion of the LGBTQ community, and even lots of self identifying heterosexual women try it out at rates far higher than their male equivalents.
It is nothing to be ashamed.
0 0 0 0Bisexuality is extremely common in women, and bisexual females are the largest section of the LGBTQ community.
0 0 0 0does feeling love to my bff and get aroused some moments make me bi? I'm not sure cause I have never have sex before. and I don't know is it love or not is it OK or not. Im so confused
Of course, I would say you are bisexual. Nothing wrong it it.
being bisexual feels me like a imposter.🤷🏻♀️
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