Is it normal to fantasize about my crush?

I have fantasies about the individual I'm crushing on. Most of them are simple and innocent, like me imagining us dating or something like that. Others are... more intimate. I'm a virgin, and I think he's one too, but sometimes my mind wanders to what would happen if we ever slept together. Honestly, I'm a wait-until-marriage person, but it's still something that, well, excites me, because I really like him. Not just for sex either, mind you; that's just something that has popped into my mind recently. My question is, is it normal to fantasize sexually about your crush?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah don't worry about it sexual fantasies are totally normal and can be pretty fun. I'm more of a wait-until-marriage kind of gal myself. Just because you choose to abstain doesn't mean you have to try to live up to that awful naive virgin stereotype (now that would be an accomplishment). Feel free to enjoy and explore your sensuality on your own terms.

  • I'd say that's normal

    Or we're both weird. Who knows?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah, perfectly normal. It means you're a human being with desires. So don't worry just let it come over you and eventually ask him out ;)

  • yes. if you had no sexual attraction to him, you wouldn't want him, right? it is normal to fantasize about being with someone we desire.

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  • completely normal

  • Yes, completely normal.

  • well yeah that's bound to happen. you're attracted to him

  • 119% normal and 81% absolutely normal.

  • Yeah its normal.

  • 110% normal.