Is it normal to just become boyfriend/girlfriend and already talk about sexual topics?

We've been dating for a month meeting every weekend. He recently just asked me to be his girlfriend. Does this show a love or more lust relationship? Or does it just show that we get along well and have a connection because in all honesty, we do. However as we made out he got a bit freaky really fast so does this show that he is really into me or does he have a different idea?

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  • He is just listing guys do this a lot!

    They force romance at a very fast pace so you just crush and love them want them without being able to process or really decide if you like them.

    They get into sex cause it is what they want and you get attached more so they get more sex before you realize what kind of person they are behind their dating mask!

    But freaky really fast is a red flag

    What creepy thing did he do?

    • What you say makes sense! So I'll tell you what happened LOL. As we went back to the hotel we had some time alone and we made out I was on top of him holding him you know kissing. Then suddenly he took one of my breasts out and played with it which didn't last so long because he quickly apologized to me because I think he realized he went too fast or something and it was unexpected because this was like really the first time we were alone and were able to make out and all that. So when he done that I really wasn't even ready but I made sure it wasn't a big deal at all because I didn't want anything awkward between us and we were fine and joking about it after. So sorry for the vulgar words but I'm just being honest because I didn't expect it!

    • Still manipulative! Someone who cared would have asked on teased about it before not just grabbed it! My ex did that even though we are in a hotel room it is no excuse! Would you like more? Sounds like you kinda were into it some? How do you feel after? What if he did more? Feel safe to stop him?

    • It was like his body kind of just took over. You know what I mean? Because even all that he pulled my hair rough and you know was acting dominant. I feel like I was into it from the kissing and all that but the breast part I felt like it wasn't right and maybe felt somewhat too fast? I can't tell if it's because he is so into me and he legit said that to me that he really wants this future with me and everything. Yes, he is respectful in that way I'm not worried to stop him with anything hence why he apologized probably.

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  • There is no normal really. Go at a pace you both are comfortable with. I think it is normal to talk about sex... after all it is only sex and it is what is on the minds of all teens and younger people. How old is he? Have you two fooled around at all yet?

    • He is 24 and I'm 20. We made out and I was on top of him and he picked me up, and you know he slaps my a** and all that. We had this trip this weekend and it's when he asked me and right after that he started to touch me more.

    • It sounds normal to me. Do you want to have sex with him? Are either of you virgins?

  • If you're this comfortable talking about sexual relationships, then you're obviously very well suited for one another.

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  • Explain your boundaries and what you want out of this relationship

    If he's good you'll know

  • I think that defines lust more than love, because its too soon to be talking about sex, unless that is all you are after.

  • It's really hard to say as it could be either. He could be saying what you want to hear to get sex or he could really like you but still want sex. He is a young guy so he will always want sex.

  • Yeah it can be.

  • Yes nowadays its so normal.