Is it normal to last longer during sex than masturbation?

I always thought it would be the opposite but turns out I was wrong. I can cum as quickly as 3 minutes masturbating but at least last about 7 minutes during sex and this is with a condom on. So do you last longer during sex or masturbation and why do you think that is?
I last longer masturbating
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I last longer during sex
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  • From a physical sensation perspective nothing can beat masturbation where you have perfect control over grip, speed, etc.

    I think anyone who is reverse might just be someone who is inexperienced at sex and getting so, so, so excited about sleeping with the girl that they bust a nut early. In that case it's more mental than about what's going on in terms of friction.

    In my case I last a lot longer during sex. For a while I actually had to learn how to climax sooner.

    • i've heard that some vaginas are completely smooth inside and some are ribbed or bumpy. have you found this to be true? which is better? i've been told by every lover that i'm bumpy/rough terrain inside and a few complained of pain but it's not a lack of moisture...

    • @COCOCHANEL Bumpy/rough for sure. I thought maybe just girls who get more wet have smoother texture because it's so lubricated, but maybe I was wrong there. Also if the girl can contract those kegel muscles, it tends to drive guys wild... combine that with rough/bumpy texture and the guy will probably be in heaven.

    • @COCOCHANEL There were only a couple of girls I was with who had that kind of ribbed texture inside that I could really feel and notice, and they got wet but with a clearer kind of secretion instead of the thicker, gooey kind. I thought that's why I could really feel the textures inside.

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  • This is not all that uncommon, however you might want to think about it this way, you know EXACTLY what it is you like and know just how to touch yourself to make that happen, sex on the other hand (no pun intended) is a different story, because while it is true that yes it does feel very good, maybe not quite as good if you were controlling all the elements of the experience the way you are when you are taking care of yourself...

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  • sometimes it seems like it takes forever to get off when having sex. But thats when foreplay comes in handy, doesn't seem to take as long

    • how long do you usually like it to last?

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  • I def last longer with full on sex. Jackin off I'll shoot in about 10-15 min. But full sex is so much hotter and want it to last. It's about the pbysical contact with another body. But to make it really last a long time, we change positions, do different things to each other to keep the party going as long as we can take it. For the record I'm bi, and it's the same with a girl or another dude.

  • Sure.

    When you're playing pocket tennis, you're chocking your chicken tighter than a pussy, which makes you cum faster.

    • whats pocket tennis

    • We are talking about masturbation. Pocket tennis is obviously slang for rock climbing.

    • never heard that phrase befor

  • Stop deathgripping your dick lol

  • Some times. While Masturbating you are controlling the pressure/speed, etc. If you are very turned on by the girl sex could be faster.

  • I last longer during masturbation most definitely! I started masturbating when I was 9. I can last 10 minutes when I just masturbate & when I edge I can last up to an hour! I have great orgasms and when I cum it feels so good to cum! Though when I edge my orgasms are awesome and when I ejaculate it is mind blowing & when I cum I shake & I thrust my hips & I have to sit or hold on to the bar when I jack off in the shower because I almost pass out & it feels so good when I shoot my load of cum!! I have been masturbate 5-9 times a week & I have been masturbating over 50 now & would rather masturbate than have sex. Because I can jack off anytime & anywhere I feel like it & I love to play with my hard cock & cum all over it! Feels so good to cum mmmmm ahhhhhhh!! I really really love to jack off & I really really love to cum!!

  • the average coital intercourse duration is 15 minutes for humans: you should slow down your faping to match that kind of time

    • I read it was actually 7 minutes i don't really care that I don't last long masturbating the points to cum not last.

    • the point is the orgasm... you go too quick and it won't builds to its full potential, you go to slow and it may starts fading away.

    • yea i know that when I said 3 minutes that's not average I can last longer I'm just saying originally I thought sex would be quicker

  • Longer during masturbation. Sex is way more intense of a feeling for me than masturbation.

  • i think so yes, its normal

  • Yeah

    • 🤔 yea what?