Is it normal to not orgasm very often?

[Anonymous]

I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 10 months and i think I've had an orgasm 2-3 times.

[Reaperbot666]

many natural born girls orgasm easier and/or more often. from clit stimulation vs continuous penetration. so consider doing more foreplay, during play or after play to get over the edge easier. you might have to rub yourself and/or get him to do it. depending on which positions you prefer to do. there are also toys called "cock rings" which can help to stimulation clit rubbing. as he continues to penetration you during sex which you could look into.

[nawtee_me]

If he is not attentive to your needs sexually you need to talk to him about it. If he is not willing to help you get yours then you may need to look elsewhere for satisfaction sexually. Vibrators or dildos and let him use them on you during sex. Maybe as foreplay so he can have sex with you when you orgasm as to not hurt his pride... ;)

[Tiff5699]

I had this issue before, do you tell him what you like?

[Asker]

I have briefly at times but maybe I need to work better on communication. It's not the be all or end all or anything like that because everything still feels good but it's nice to have that release sometimes.

[Tiff5699]

Can you pm me?

[El_Dorado]

Depends how often you have sex.

[Asker]

Relatively often, generally a few times a week.

[El_Dorado]

Hmm then you have bad sex I guess.

[LiamSawyer]

No it's not normal, not if you are both communicating and he has half an idea what he's doing and listens to you when you guide him to the right spots and how you like them stimulated.

[chippy161]

Scientificly proven it only takes a 2 inch penis to make a girl orgasm. Every girl has something different that gets her off. You need to learn to communicate with him what that is. On the otherhand, have you orgasmed in the past? If not, maybe you need to figure out what exactly gets you off and go from there.

[DavidFox]

He’s not stimulating your clitoris

[s2firestar]

No, not really. You guys are doing somethong in the wrong way.

[pizzalovershouse]

well if you feel you should have these from just penetration very few girls do

[In_Trance]

normal

[Valnac]

No it’s not normal.
A real man takes care of her needs first, then she takes care of his.

[TheCotellian]

No. He needs to make you the focus and find what it takes to open the floodgates so to speak. You should be cumming all over the place

[ahmedah]

May be he finishes too early

[Joe1956]

he doesn't assist you in cumming?