Is it normal to sext with just a friend?

[Anonymous]

This guy and I have admitted to having feelings for each other, but for at least the time being decided it’s best not to date bc we have an 18 year age gap, and both had very bad breakups within the last year. And truthfully he’s pretty hung up on his ex, she’s also been causing a lot of drama (she’s blocked but keeps making fake accounts spreading lies and calling him names), he pretty much brings her up any opportunity he can bring her up he will. I’m enjoying being single. There was a gap of time we stopped sexting bc we thought it best not to cross lines anymore, but the last few days we started again. I don’t know how, but it happened. Is it bc we’re sexually attracted and can’t help? Why do we do this? There’s also a lot of sexual tension when we hang out, but never crossed that line, and I don’t plan to unless he makes a move. It’s fun, but should I stop? It’s so fun though, and gives me an ego boost (not gonna lie lol).

[FunkyMonkee]

I used to have a friend that was married and was kinda closer to me. We never fucked but we were naked in front of each other, once and she let me feel her pussy and her huge tits a few times. She refused to cheat on her hubby, as much of an abusive asshole as he was, but, we were on the phone one night and she pulled out her vibrator and started playing with herself and asked me to say stuff to help her cum.

[Wise4myage]

Sure, as long as you both feel the same and its not forced on either person.

[Wise4myage]

Works for me, lol.

[Anonymous]

A lot of people sext with a lot of others off and on it's no big deal.

[Guy13]

It’s not normal to sext at all…

[Asker]

Why do you say that? Can you elaborate your stance, please?

[Guy13]

It’s not a turn on…it kills all the imagination. If you do that for me then you will do that to me. How do you trust someone with this kind of judgment. “She sleeps with everyone” says the Boys.

[Asker]

I see what you’re saying. This guy already says he finds it’s very sexy when we do it.

[Guy13]

“Cows are stupid as they simply stand there while one ascertains free milk 🥛”

[Asker]

I disagree with last statement. Also on the rude side. You’re calling me stupid, because I sexted with this guy? So is he stupid as well for doing it as well or is there a double standard? I have no intentions to actually sleep with him, let alone even thinking of dating him, considering he is hung up on his ex and issues she keeps causing. It’s fun to do. Why isn’t it ok to embrace sexy? I’ll agree to disagree with you.

[jeremy_09]

I have.

[RuthlessAggression]

No. People have perverted the idea of being "just friends"

[Twalli]

I guess continue until you or him get a SO

[Pudsmucker]

I'm not familiar with sexting.

[Alex8736]

Friends with benefits

[hhhffg7889]

If you can have that friendship, it's the best.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I think it's OKI had this friend we were just friends best friends but I would masturbate in front of her

[Opinion Owner]

And she would always tease me asking like what I would like to do to her

[Asker]

I’ve never masturbated in front of someone in I viewed as just a friend unless I was drunk. But as long as both of you were ok and comfortable with it, that’s all that matters.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah like she would never do it from me but was cool with watching me do it

[Anonymous]

I've done it before. She and I were just bored and horny.

[Asker]

We’ve done it off and on for a year. So it’s normal to do, could it harm the friendship considering we’ve confessed having feelings for each other? I’m overthinking it, I think.

[Opinion Owner]

It's possible. Fortunately it didn't hurt our friendship, but everyone is different.