Is it normal to still fantasize and lust about fucking my ex?

Question

I am in a relationship, have been for a few years. But my partner is not sexually satisfying me, and God do I want to fuck my ex so bad. He is amazing in bed and made me orgasm every time. Things ended very abruptly between us. And before anyone says, I have tried to communicate with my partner, tried different things in bed etc etc.

I fantasize about my ex a lot a lot, but I wouldn't cheat on my partner. Fuck I would love to do it with him just one last time 🥴💧is that normal?

Is it normal to still fantasize and lust about fucking my ex?

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

So far you have remained true to your present partner. But not being satisfied by him PLUS still having an attraction to a prior partner who did satisfy you will get to the point that you will not continue being faithful. You either need to teach him how to do the job right, or get someone who can.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Yeah our brains are nasty fuckers and remind us of stuff.

fantasy is one thing but you have to watch it does not turn to regret, dislike for current partner.

if it does, then end it.

it will just turn bitter

Manu_el01 · Answer

If she/he was good and the current one do not meet the needs. You can think of him/her while making love to your current one.

I would suggest to moan your currents name so that you don't mess up 🤣🤣🤣

BlacklightShade · Answer

Sometimes I think about exes. But I used to think about this one guy until I met up with him in a group of friends a few years later and learned my memory of him far exceeded the reality of him. Glad I got cleansed of that flame.

Avicenna · Answer

Yeah, that's pretty normal

Andres77 · Answer

I still do as well.
My wife and I talk about all our ex's when we fuck. The more we talk about all the cock and pussy we've had the better the sex.
If we're both working a lot and don't see each other for a few days we'll usually masterbate and we'll tell each other what we fantasized about.
Just fun

Becky316 · Answer

I believe it's normal, especially if you're not satisfied. Your body is seriously craving it, or that is what it seems like

loveslongnails · Answer

It's totally normal to want the good sex you're not currently getting. Horrible position to be in, isn't it?

FruitAndBlueEyes · Answer

Yeah, I think it’s normal.

Iron_Man · Answer

You should end your relationship

Born-for-sex · Answer

I mean it’s normal to want to but what is keeping you from dumping your partner you have and what would keep you from fucking your ex then?

Andy79 · Answer

Very normal

Wise4myage · Answer

Given your situation, Id say its very normal to do this. But maybe its time to think about moving on?

Caliguy88 · Answer

I fantasize about most of my exes a lot. Lol. Replay a hot night of sex etc. It’s probably my main goto for alone time. And I got pics and videos so that helps. Lol