Is it odd for my boyfriend to sniff underwear?

[Anonymous]

So recently my boyfriend told me that he likes to sniff underwear and he asked if he could sniff mine and my girls which are 4 &5 at first it freaked me out i was gonna breakup with him about it but he didn't want me too so what should i do also there not his kids there mine he's 27 i'm 25

[AndyOh]

Yeah he has a bit of a fetish for sniffing panties.
I would say yes to giving him your panties, to sniff... been there done that.
But I would draw the line with your kids panties, and say NO.
The problem is, that if he is in your house, he will find a way to get to the kids panties. So you need to have a long talk with him and see how honest he is, and tell him, if he breaks the promise not to touch the kids panties, or he is OUT.
Just my suggestion.

[JackSmy]

Yeah, that's a HUGE WARNING SIGN!! I can understand him being one of those 'panty-loving' guys, that would like yours, but little CHILDREN'S? FUCKING NO WAY!!
He's a Pedophile in the making, if not already an abuser!!
Run!! Just get away, and get your kids away from this pervert!!

[JennBITx]

Him sniffing yours is one thing. I am concerned about him wanting to sniff your daughters

[Asker]

Same here i just dont understand why he wanna sniff theirs smh or if i should stay and see if he gets help or leave

[Edgar991]

Yes him sniffing her daughters is totally wrong. But him sniffing her panties. Is that acceptable?

[Tamera952]

Not really... hardly aberrant behavior, kinda gross but fairly common.

[Asker]

Okay so do you think i should wait to see of he gets help or leave

[Tamera952]

Why would you break up with him over it? You should be flattered. I doubt he'll seek 'hellp' or that he even needs to. Why would you make him leave?

[Asker]

cause of the situation that's why i would leave and be flattered in what way i just found out

[Asker]

Cannot judge someone from there past just go with ur gut and hope for the best

[OlderAndWiser]

Him sniffing your underwear is a bit of a twist but not horribly uncommon. Him wanting to smell the underwear of a 4 year old girl and a 5 year old girl is like the horrible red flag warning sign of the century! What are you thinking? Don't let this guy anywhere near your kids. Never! And that means break up and never see him again.

[ChrisMaster69]

Nah that’s time to turf him out,

yours is okay, the other is a kick him out ASAP.

[summiter]

That is way weird. He sounds like a strange guy and I don't know if you can trust him around your kids.

[abc3643]

Sniffing your underwear is somewhat natural. Sniffing your kids underwear is a red flag.
He needs to go.

[Asker]

Thanks that what i was saying and right

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s not weird there are a lot of pantie sniffers & bandits out there.

[Asker]

Okay but what about childs underwear

[Static_In_The_Attic]

That’s just freaky.

[Asker]

Yeah got me wondering why a childs underwear just dont understand

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Ask him.

[Asker]

Okay i will

[Asker]

I mean i do care and love him but he needs help to get over with that.. could be from his pass he was abused as a child also who do i contact for him so he can talk to about it

[Libbers]

You are a troll go away sicko

[Asker]

U mean him

[Bricealan]

Another sexual kink, but not a 'terrible' one. Wanting to sniff the girls underwear is very odd, and I would look at him again, in a different light. Wanting to sniff yours is okay, ... the girls... not so much.

[JustBoringOldMe]

RED FLAG. Definitely do not let that man near your children!

[Dargil]

Yes, it is. Yours are OK but kids, no.

[Asker]

Thats what i told him and i was gonna leave him but he didn't want me to still to this day I don't know if he should be around them or what

[Dargil]

Best to go. We shouldn't even BE thinking of children's lady parts.

[Asker]

Yeah especially there underwear it just freaked me out when he told me that

[jamezsexton]

signs of a child molester, urs it not big deal if ur ok w it. but ur daughters not a flying chance. as a father of 6 3 boys 3 girls id beat my boys senseless and tell my girls ill hide the body.

[exitseven]

I could see sniffing your underwear but your kids' is a little out there. Watch this guy.

[Asker]

Okay i agree and right

[johnsmithjs]

Post his address with your question, I am sure someone will have a good heart to heart with the pedophile.

[Alejandro3000]

Typical troll, you act like you are clueless.

[Andres77]

Just yours? Perfectly fine.
Your daughters? Run like the lives of your daughters depend on it.
Just... fucking wow...

[Asker]

I agree when he said that i was like omg why a childs underwear tho i just dont understand

[Andres77]

When evil approaches don't waste time trying to understand it... defeat it and run.

[Asker]

Okay

[Andres77]

Or just run

[Asker]

I mean i do care and love him but he needs help to get over with that.. could be from his pass he was abused as a child also who do i contact for him so he can talk to about it

[Andres77]

You can be caring... from a distance No amount of abuse should ever nudge consideration for him any near the protection that your kids deserve. Listen, I'm not saying that you care more him than you do your kids. It's ok to be compassionate regarding his past abuse. BUT!!! Be compassionate from a distance until he's received therapy and your fears are addressed and recorded by a healthcare (mental health) professional. His request for your daughter's dirty panties needs to be officially recorded. Every evil action starts with a thought. He's already been thinking about the smell of your daughters... let that sink in! Compassion from a safe distance!

[Andres77]

Google search. Sexual abuse counseling. And when he starts... THE FACT THAT HE ASKED FOR YOUR DAUGHTER'S PANTIES HHHAASSSS TO BE DOCUMENTED!!!

[Asker]

Okay thank you for your help and support

[Mynameisbobby]

He sounds like a pedophile! Get him away from your daughters now!!

[pink_and_inlove]

Yeah that is very odd and creepy

[MysteriousDarkness]

Sniffing the underwear of kids is wrong because he wants to know how tgey smell. That is a sign he is into kids. Keep him away from your kids. Better yet get rid of him.

[SeanshterMonster]

If it's just your underwear, no. If it's any. Yeah

[Caliguy88]

I don’t do that but a lot of guys do, so I’d say it’s normal.

[Den1971]

I don't think you should ask. Go with your gut. Eventually he will be at your house alone where he can do as he pleases. Think about it.