Is it off for a 34 year old man to have only had 7sex partners?

My 34 yr old boyfriend told me that he’s only had less than 10 (around 7 or 8) sex partners in the 10 years he has been sexually active. I was genuinely shocked. Is there any other guys with a low count like this? I always assume men have a high number or sexual partners.
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  • I only had 4 and im 41.

  • That’s still 6 more than me.

  • He m. j ay be a serial monogamist. Frequent sex, but only in relationships. I have only had sex with one person. Yet I think I have had sex over 500 times. Probably not 1k times though.

  • i think thats not unusual

  • I am 53 years old and have carnal knowledge of only 6 women in my entire life. Therefore it wouldn't be odd for a man to have carnal knowledge of less than 10 at any age. Not all men are players or casanovas ☯️

  • Seems low, but whatever. Everyone has a story.

  • Nope.

  • i am 41 and only had 3 and now i am not wanted oh well thats life

  • That’s probably about the norm. If each was a ltr of even a year or two.

  • I think that is normal.

  • Obviously you've had a ton

    Hope he gets tested

    • No just one i am not experienced with dating.

  • Depends on the types of relationships he had with them

  • Seven in 10 years is a lot in my opinion.

    I am assuming one night stands don't count.

  • I’ve had one. I’m picky and loyal to a fault.

  • Lol , i am 33 and i had 0 ! My choice ! what is strange?

  • it is more likely that a female will have a higher count because she can easily have sex but it is much harder for a man to have sex

  • I am 29 virgin and waiting to fall in love with the right girl and post marriage have sex, what's your point?

  • I only have 3. I only have sex with people I'm in a serious relationship with.

  • I only have had 6 so far and I’m 54 but I was married for years so there is a big gap

    • How old were you when you lost your virginity?

    • I was 21

    • Wow, good for you❤️

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  • That is 7 more than me.

    • Are you a virgin?

    • Yes.

    • There’s nothing wrong with that

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