Seriously, what's wrong with you?
Teenagers are going through puberty and their hormones are all out of whack. Plus they're still trying to figure out how to deal with all these new feelings.
You do realise that puberty is all about the development of their sexual reproductive organs as well as a lot of major body developments?
They're going to be curious about sex and for many, it's going to be on their minds all the damn time. And guess what? Many of them are going to experiment and or try sex, regardless of whatever strange hang ups you have over it.
You staying in denial about it isn't going to magically stop your daughters from thinking about sex or eventually having sex. And you finger pointing at everybody and calling them sick or pedophiles isn't going to change Reality. In fact, your attitude is extremely dangerous to your children's well being and trying to keep them ignorant about sex in this day and age is only going to backfire. If they don't learn about sex properly from sex Ed or from yourself, they're going to learn from their friends or the internet.
When my son is old enough and is going through the change, I will answer any questions he may have and I will give him the tools to understand what is going on through puberty, what the risks are and how to protect himself.
You, nor I, can keep control over what our kids end up doing with their lives. All we can do is educate them and give them as much knowledge as possible in the hopes that they learn to make the right decisions for themselves and that if they do eventually decide to have sex, that they at least be as safe as possible and use their damn brains before they do something stupid.
Your daughters aren't little babies anymore. They're growing up and you can't stop that with your anger and denial.
Call me whatever the hell you want, I don't care... But the only person you're hurting is yourself and your daughters. They need your support and your guidance, not your scorn and closed mindedness.
And correct me if I am wrong, but aren't you being just a little bit of a hypocrite?
You say you have teenage daughters and yet your age ranges between 18-24. If you were 24, then you must have been around 12 or 13 when you had your first kid. Now either you're a hypocrite, or you're full of sh*t and posted some strange troll question for reasons I don't even understand.
Either way, stop wasting our time. Nobody can be this... I don't know what you call it.
So its ok for them to get fu ked because they have sexual urges? What if your wife has sexual urges for another man is it ok for her to get fucked by that man? Think with your brains.
Try thinking with your own, because your proposed counter argument / scenario is completely unrelated to the topic at hand. Whether my wife was having sex with me or someone else, sex is still involved. That and she and I are grown adults. Your whole issue is sex itself and teenagers possibly having sex, which you're completely against. You don't think teenagers should be talking about sex, learning about sex or having sex at all. Then for some reason you try to defend your position by attempting to use an adult wife cheating on her adult husband... Whom both have already have had sex and plenty of it. How the two magically connect to justify your position is beyond me. But keep fighting the good fight.
lol agreed Lester this is right up there with anti bullying campaign. I don't know of anyone who supports bullying. But like you're ever going to completely irradicate it. This is just part of growing up. You teach your kids and hope and pray they don't do anything too foolish that'll cost them the rest of there life.
No it isn't ok at all. Teens are going to jail and becoming sex offenders for life for consensual sex now because they are careless and don't understand laws treat underage sex the same as it would for adults praying on teenagers. Laws are too ambiguous now. Sex and sexual acts are ADULT acts, hence why the "adult" label applies to sexual material, porn etc. When I was a teen I and other friends were not allowed to date until 18. If you are under 18, sex and sexual acts should be illegal even if carried out by other underage. Wether its a teenage girl or boy who wants it, its wrong. Too many risks. Is my opinion unreasonable? I know a lot would disagree.
It is very awkward to talk or educate teen age daughter about sex to keep her healthy sexually and mentally. Most teens have different views than their parents when it comes to what constitutes a sex talk. Science class and textbooks do help, but it is not sufficient, something is getting lost in translation. Biologically girls get sexually matured much early compared to boys. She is capable of producing child as soon as her periods start regular. It does not magically become matured when he or she turn 18, one day or few moths does not change anything surprisingly. Maturity age is different for different aspects of life – Emotional, social, physical, mental, psychological, economically and so on. Sex is not only for special enjoyment, it is a great responsibility too and enjoying it requires many things to understand and manage correctly. I personally do not agree with teen age sex for many reasons. First of the few things is about pregnancy. Condoms are almost as effective for preventing pregnancy as the Pill when they are used correctly. Condoms also drastically reduce the chance of sexually transmitted infection, and it is impossible to tell by how someone looks if they have one. Plan B is a high-dose birth control pill - available over-the-counter. It should not be used frequently. Young people ages 15 to 24 represent 25% of the sexually active population but they account for almost 50% of new STD cases. Health and hygiene awareness is lacking much at this age. Women can have gonorrhea, chlamydia, hepatitis, HIV, and syphilis without having any obvious symptoms. Chlamydia is a sexually transmitted bacterial infection that usually starts out with no symptoms but it is very destructive in the long term, especially to women's reproductive systems. There are more than 100 different types of the human papillomavirus (HPV) and HPV is the number-one cause of cervical cancer and genital warts. The Pill is so safe and effective and depending on the formula of the medication, the Pill can: help reduce menstrual bleeding, reduce painful periods, cut back on the risk of uterine infection and ovarian cancer and clear up mild to moderate acne. Social traditions are based on long term observations of life facts and they should be respected – as we do respect scientific details.
To me safe sex between teenagers is still sick.
Sex is not only for pleasure or special enjoyment, it is a great responsibility too. I personally do not agree with teen age sex for many reasons.
You nicely explained everything. Can you explain why safe sex between teens is still wrong?
No it isn't okay but they are teenagers and they are going to experiment no matter what anyone tells them and anyone who thinks they won't experiment is delusional. We need to educate them on safe sex so if they feel that they want to experiment they do it safely.
safe sex is still sick. Telling teens they can have sex makes one a shitty quality human being. I haven't had sex when i wa sa teen. So yeah it's possible.
I didn't say it wasn't possible. I didn't have sex as a teenager either. I'm just saying that teenagers are curious and some of them will experiment and they might as well do it safely.
And as to your update, they aren't as bad as pedophiles. Pedophiles like prepubescent children not teenagers. Teenagers have gone through puberty so pedophiles aren't interested in them. If you want to educate yourself more I did an entire mytake on it.
If you are ready to buy condoms, take responsibility after they breake, are resdy to discuss birth control with your doctor and to go to an abortian clinic if needed then you are ready
Safe sex between teens is still sick
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Well, I'm European and we're generally pretty relaxed about things like that. European parents also don't have this uptight attitude of constantly walking into their teenage children's bedroom when the boyfriend/girlfriend is staying/sleeping over. If you're over the age of about 14, you're considered to be old enough to deserve a decent amount of privacy and you have the bodily autonomy to choose how far you want to go with the other gender.
So, if I were a dad, the only thing I'd be worried about is that my child uses protection and that he/she is doing it in an environment where they feel safe and protected (ideally their room in my house). If these two things were ensured, I wouldn't mind them going to second or third base with their boyfriend/girlfriend and I would give them the space/privacy to do that.
This is how I was raised too.
I know that European parents think it's ok for teenagers to get fucked by whoever they want. They are real parents. So mature.
I don't understand why you're being so sarcastic and bitter. Have I insulted you? I don't think so.
You made me feel moral disgust for you
Countries like mine legally allow marriage at 16 without consent and below 16 with some form of consent.
I had read your detail and replies to many comments.
I think if properly married, then the consummation and sex thereafter should be respected and be deem dignified.
It doesn't matter whether you agree or not or feel everyone who married at 16 to 19 is sick or not.
As long as they are legally married then sex is implied and dignified. (Thus agreed millions of people worldwide, religious and otherwise.)
I don't care who agrees.
Of course. I expect such a response from u
Most people are capable of fucking anyone. Why would they agree with my restrictions?
You’re not realistic, teens go up to 19, I understand if you have an issue with 13y olds having sex but where I live it’s not uncommon for 16y old teens to have boyfriend / girlfriend relations with sleepovers at respective parents. They will just remind the kids about safe sex and that’s it.
safe sex doesn't make the sick action ok
Dear Asker, I don’t know in which country you live, but you sound like you might benefit from some psychological counseling or seeing a sex therapist. You’re _very_ aggressive towards different opinions and points of view but you should stop calling out people being a pedophile for it.
sex therapist? why for making me like the sex between teens? I'm not as sick as you
No mom wants their daughter to be as promiscuous as they were as a teen.
even sluts don't want that?
Only in porn.
I mean, when you say teenager, what age are we talking about here?
Also, please don't fucking compare child molesters to consensual sex between to reasonably aged teenagers. THAT is sick.
Teens are still kids
Teens are teens. Call everyone under 18 just "kids" if you like, it will not change the fact that a 16 year old is not comparable to a 10 year old. And your pedophile comment is still very disgraceful and pretty insulting.
If there was a spectrum and on one end it’s titled “not okay” and the other is “okay” I’d be more towards the former. Despite this I don’t think it’s really a big deal if safe sex precautions are followed. I think the biggest question is, to what extent are teenagers intelligently and/or safely engaging in sex? Probably not that much, because they’re teenagers you can safely assume
I'm against safe sex between teenagers too. Safe sex doesn't make it ok
That attitude is righteous and all, but it will be very interesting to see how you fare when you actually have children someday and they completely ignore what you think bc they've been going out with their boyfriend Sid the drug dealer for like months. Sid is like the best thing that ever happened to her... and you can't tell her what to do and who to see.
Yeah of course it is. It doesn't magically become okay when they turn 18. Like that one day doesn't change anything
Agreed. No sex for anyone in their teens. 20+ only
Amirite
When you talk about sex for 'teenagers. you have to be talking about teens below 18, I am guessing. Parents have many digressing views and my mother, was one of those people that had Very different and sometimes destructive views about sex, and that applied to me as a 20 year old, dating a high school Junior who had more sexual experience at 16 than I did at 19.
My mother's view was even more extreme than your and very nearly 'warped' my view of sex and sexuality, when I was nearly 20 years old.
Not saying that is the way to go with sex education, it is/was the reality, more than 20 years ago, and I don't think it is reasonable or possible to change that social 'trend' if we can call it that.
Your language is very strong and a bit inflammatory comparing teen sex with Pedophilia, and I do not, and will not, debate you on the subject, but just wanted to add a perspective different that what I have read here
Look up the definition of pedophilia. Having sex with 19 isn't a problem.
Still sick
People here are not talking about 19 year old human beings
Yeah right, cause at 20 you suddenly transform into a human being xD
In this day and age its not and it shouldn’t be but we continue to encourage teens and even children to sexualize themselves and explore sex. At a time it was ok because back then people became young women and young men at the age of 14 or 15. I wonder why this has changed so much.
It's sick to tell teens to have sex, even safe sex.
I definitely agree
You are 15 and American and mature. Is your info correct?
16 and up seems ok to me as long as they are responsible.
I agree with you 100%!!! Kids need to stay in their place!!!
no...
Teens biologically are suppose be having sex once they hit puberty.
That's why in ancient days they got married with each other around 12 or 13 years old.
it's still sick to me
we should do it pinkanon (18-24)
It is sick. Waiting til marriage
Lol, I really want to talk some funny shit here.. But I know it will just get removed. Anyway
I doubt you can
You're going to have to do better than just your doubt to convince me..
I totally agree with you
Yes it's ok
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