Is it OK that the dirty talk disgusts me?

Suck my d1ck, I want to fnck you so badly, I would love to see that pu$$y of yours... etc.

Disgusts me and I am sure that I wouldn't like it even if my husband said it...

I like romance and gentle sex more...
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  • I can feel what you say. It totally disgusts me and I believe that those people that express themselves with curse words, lewd expression and demeaning/sexist comments are just plain rude and lack basic education.

    I see absolutely no reason why a vulva has to be called a p**y, a penis a d**k and all those body parts with degrading expressions and names.

    But I guess that our society is hostage of the porn industry that glorifies those abject terms and that makes them acceptable, even though they are totally inappropriate.

    • I wonder, why do people actually like and enjoy such dirty conversations? To me, there's no fun in it, it is simply disgusting...

    • Because people are sheep. They don't think but just follow the others because it is "cool" and makes them be accepted by society and their peers to talk like that. Those people are not leaders, they are followers and lack character and personality.

    • I like romance very much. It is so gentle, loving and calming.

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  • Usually that’s a sign of a guy that likes to dominate. Personally I like it when guys suggest things and we are equals in sex. I love when a girl takes control and knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to do what it takes to find satisfaction.

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  • It’s ok. My guess is those phases turn you off because they indicate danger or risk to you. You prefer gentle sex because it’s safer and more intimate

    • Oh, you are right! Like, I don't feel safe when I hear them, and I feel objectified by them.

    • Than it’s your partners job to first make you feel safe. If you don’t feel safe, I don’t know if you can ever think the naughty thoughts in your brain which allows your body to open up and be turned on. That’s why gentle sex works right now. Over time with a patient and caring lover you can increase trust and eventually allow your mind to think those fantasies

    • I see, thank you for the advice.

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  • I suspect when he gets you really turned on and the animal in you comes out to play, you might change your mind.

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  • I find it cringe, especially if also gets demeaning. I guess it's about personal preference

  • Everbody have their preference and you shouldn't worry about if it's normal, if yoy don't like it just don't do it

  • What disgusts me is you fucking useless Anonymous TROLLS

  • Of course it's weird if your boyfriend says "I wANt tO FUck yOU sO BaD!" while jumping out of the blue Lol. What works for me is something more teasing and suspenseful like "Be a good girl, and I'll do bad things to you" or "I have a surprise for you, but you have to close your eyes", and then move onto more direct dirty talking.

  • Yeah that's fine.

    For me, I like a little of it before sex or to imply that it is wanted. Not too much though. I like to be more general and less vulgar with my phrasing.

    During sex though, I don't like talking at all. And talking dirty feels so unnatural then.

  • Its totally fine!! Everyone has their own choice

  • Yes, it's okay.

    I just start laughing.

  • It's normal, everyone has their own turn ons/turn offs

  • Yeah sure. That's your preference.

  • It is very OK and don't tolerate or reward it.

  • Yes, I admit sometimes dirty talk from girl scares me away from her

  • Dirty talk doesn't have to be vulgar. You can be suggestive and abstract and drop hints instead of outright saying "i will do X to Y"

  • Sounds like you're just a kid. You're just not ready for adulthood yet, and that's fine. You can sit it out for awhile.

  • The examples are crude and unimaginative. So yes, it is okay that it disgust you and likely even turns you off.

    • Those examples are bad probably because I don't even know how to properly dirty talk... 😂

    • And I don't even know how to properly dirty talk because it has never interested me.

    • Trust me... there are significantly better ways... especially during the moment. Over the phone or in a text is merely tawdry in my mind. Base comments like those are definitely, “ordinary”. Regardless as it matters not. You like what you like and I can sympathize with what you do not like equally as I am not a fan either. Crude is rudimentary at best and dull gray matter does not excitement in the opposite sex.

  • im not really into it either. its a bit of a turn off.

  • It's ok. That kind of talk disgusts me, too.

  • I don't like my self. We talk about sex but there are nice ways to do it...

  • well u are a girl so obviously a guy talking like that is disgusting, guys aren't hot.. if i was a girl i would find it gross too...
    only girls can talk dirty and sound hot

  • hey dont let anyone tell you your appirites or dislikes are bad. if your partner doesn't respect that drp his jewels on the floor and move on. never be disrespected in sex

  • The dirty talk you mentioned is just desperate type. And those types of talk ain't okay

    • Those examples are bad probably because I don't even know how to properly dirty talk. 😂 I don't know how to properly dirty talk because it has never interested me.

    • Well i do that talk. Trust me its never like that. Maybe you should try an actual good one.

    • Try me maybe. Lets see if it does interest u or not. We can stop if you dont like 😉

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