Is it ok to cheat to fulfil a sexual fantasy?

Let's suppose you have a sexual fantasy that your partner doesn't share or perhaps you haven't confess to. By chance one day you get the opportunity to live that fantasy but to do so means you have to cheat on your partner. Assuming they'll never find out would you cheat to fulfil a once in a life time opportunity?
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  • I had this opportunity once, and declined it. That was back when I was a "nice guy". Basically one friend who was a female that I was in the friend-zone with and her BFF who I barely knew had started experimenting together and decided to add a guy to the mix. The came to me, TWICE, and both times I had turned them down because I had just recently agreed to a committed relationship with a girl I had been dating for a couple of months. The second time was at my workplace, they came in and asked me to do them both when I got off work. My best friend was working with me and told me I was the dumbest dumbass on planet dumbass for saying no. Turns out he was right. It was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.

    The extremely painful irony is that I eventually told my wife, who was the girl I had committed to way back then, and she called me a dumbass for turning it down. lolz? /facepalm.

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  • It would have to be a very alluring fantasy. There is never a justification to cheat so I've I do I am basiclly saying I'm ok with losing my current partner.

    It also madders a lot weither or not I've ever mentioned it to them and how they took it.

    If I've never brought it up then I idnt even give them a chance to be ok with or try it. If I brought it up and they kink shamed me I'm much more likely to risk the relationship I have with the rude judgmental person to live a fantasy with a freak, but it's still cheating and wrong tho, I just dont care.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not at all. It is never ok to cheat no matter what the reason is. If your sexual fantasy is so important to you, just break up with your boyfriend and do it. You can't have both.

  • It's never ok to cheat. And if you haven't told your partner yet about your fantasy, that's on you.

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  • No, I wouldn't cheat to fulfill a sexual fantasy. I couldn't live with myself after that

  • No. Cheating, by definition, is dishonest. If my partner cheated on me, trust and, therefore, the basis of our relationship, would be destroyed. For what? A single moment of satisfaction? I wonder if it would be worth it.
    It seems like sociopathic behavior.

  • No, thats disgusting. How can one claim to have value if they cannot keep to their word to the one person they are suppose to be loyal to? A person without loyalty is worthless.

  • Do you care if your partner cheats because they have a justification which they consider to be a "good" justification?

    • Actually I've never cheated and I expect the same in return. Just wanted to see if people would pass up a golden opportunity given the chance

    • I've never cheated. I had the opportunity but I didn't think it was "golden."

  • Hell, no!

  • This has happen to me 2 times maybe 3 I would be single for awhile and the min i start seeing someone something always happens to test me and all I can do is smile and say thank you but I can't,, I'm sorry. Fantasy are fantasy there's many other ways to fulfeel them fantasys come and go i think all i have to do is blink myeye and i could come up apwith a doozzy lol
    I could make one about your post but it's just a fantasy. I look at things like this,, would I want it done to me ,, no not really so it's not cool to cheat first of all yourself and then your friend or partner lover girlffriend what ever you want to call her

  • No its not no matter what your crazy fantasy is.

  • No it isn’t ok.
    And how do you deal with the guilt everyday afterwards?

  • I have a antasy to punch someone in the face, do you think that's ok to do it without their permission given the opportunity? Grow up

  • You mean pay some strippers to enact them because without money no one seems to accept.. well i guess yeah

  • Nope. I don't like lying.

  • No going behind the back of someone who trusts you is never okay. Would be okay if you asked her if you could but all that will get you is no more relationship. Unless if she's weird enough to make a deal or something.

  • yeah its cheating. And you're a girl so its probably not a once in a lifetime opportunity.

    • @dmgstarfleet You are just another guy who thinks that all women have tons of opportunities when it comes to sexual relations.

  • No. Not at all. I have thought about when I was in a darker more toxic place, but I didn't. Comunicating correctly over time with your partner as others suggested is the superior option. Cheating will damage your relationship, regardless if they find out or not.

  • No because the guilt would eat Me up inside especially if I really loved My woman and She treated Me really well. You just need to communicate Your need and tell Him that You want to experience Your fantasy and most men would comply. Now if it includes plowing His bunghole or violence then a man might not be willing because after all those two things are very taboo. As far as Me I might consider one of those things but it will never leave the bedroom because that would be very shameful for a man.

  • Never.

  • No, not at all.

  • Nope

  • Definetly not, that's selfish as hell, the mere idea of that disgusts me. Better break me off and do that shit with some other man.

  • no I would never cheat under any circumstances, if she approved that's different, granted I don't really have any sexual fantasies really, well that I haven't done. The only one I have left to do is mff which I got pretty close to before (one watching me and ex). I'd be totally understanding if she wasn't comfortable me doing that nor does it bother me a lot lol

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