Is it OK to fantasize?

[Janenow]

Do you think its OK to have fantasies about people who are forbidden e. g underage teens or your family e. g. cousins?

[notatrap]

Hell no. I used to as well and made out with a.. 'cousin' I grew up with. She isn't blood related, but a family friend I considered like my cousin and regret it to this day. I guess I shouldn't feel bad about it since she came onto me too, but that's not what I want between me and her if I ever see her again. It comes from deep loneliness and your actual relationship to them. Find fulfillment elsewhere.

[JackSmy]

Fantasy is just that! It's in your head, or maybe if your write stories, but just fantasy!
It's only wrong if you actually act out those 'fantasies' with someone under age or in some hurtful way.
Fantasize anything you want, and get off, if you like, and don't feel guilty!

[Lliam]

I think fantasies are normal and most are healthy. But fantasizing about sex with underage people is sick.
Fantasizing about sex with close relatives might be kind of twisted. Although it must not be uncommon, considering the number of porn scenarios about brothers and sisters, fathers and daughters, mothers and sons, etc.
I guess all I can say is, I never had such fantasies about relatives.

[integrale77]

Just keep it in your head as soon as you start affecting others you've overstepped the mark

[Karin_Anna]

Fantasies belong in the realm of our minds, it is whether you choose for them to become a reality is different. Some should stay in that realm. Whereas others, you can find like minded people to share and experience with, so long as they are not breaking any laws

[abc3643]

For the most part, sure. It's natural.

[cntrytbm]

I'm a little torn about this one. I have a cousin, who se about 10 years younger than me and since I've been about 26 or 27 I thought she was gorgeous! I am adopted so she's not a blood cousin, but I know that doesn't matter to most people. If I was to go up there today and she were to make a move I would not turn her down. I'm very conflicted about that as I feel it's wrong on a few levels, but also don't care. If she's up for it and I am up for it who's to say it's wrong? Lol

[Temprofile564]

I think it's dangerous. I think fantasy will only make u want it more and more until u may act on it

[WhiteShoulder]

Fantasies are fine. Just don’t act on them.

[BeRealU]

I just decided to follow and scrolled through your questions, so, sorry for the late response, but:
Is it ok to fantasize? -yes. Is it the best idea? -probably not. What you focus on tends to expand in your mind.. so if I think about food and watch cooking shows I will probably start craving certain foods.. well, if you think about something forbidden and enjoy how you feel thinking about it, you may want it even more. -I picked my niece up from school one time when she was in high school and her friend told her she thought I was hot.. my niece told me she thought it was funny at first.. a week later the girl asked my niece if she’d ever seen me naked.. a few days later she asked my niece if she’d ever thought about me naked or wanted to see me naked.. this kid had one fantasy and kept thinking about it until it grew, and she made her friend very uncomfortable. I had to tell the kids parents that I think they need to give her “the talk.” It just shows that letting a thought go unchecked can cause you to unknowingly start thinking that not so healthy things are normal.. then you lose friends, if not something worse. Protect your mind.

[flor1003]

As long as they are just fantasies, sure. Still weird tho.

[Ponderer234]

We would have to clearly define "OK" here first.. me, I have some pretty deliciously twisted and kinky fantasies myself and indulge in them daily. However, I'm sure some prude would take or find fault with even some of my most vanilla ones.. so I think it's fair to say that no matter what you are into, someone somewhere could and would find fault in it. I just could care less what anyone thinks, so I guess I'm free regardless! 😉

[ColoradoKid]

I think that thoughts that a person may have about family in this situation would be better off only known to you. How under age would be this person? What about age gap? But if its something that you like I can't diss any one for a harmless act. When it becomes a physical act it can be a big problem.

[AngelLily]

Those type of fantasies aren't ok

[CocoBat]

Yes⠀⠀⠀⠀

[funride74]

Fantasy are there for many reasons and also being a valve for things which one should not do. Guess it's normal

[magiusX26]

as long as it stays in your head

[TBoneTrimm]

I went through a weird phase where taboo stuff was all the rage. Fantasize... yes. To actually do it... nope!

[a-FENCE-ive]

i would say yes.. but then there's gonna be a lot squares saying no it isn't ok, so whats the point of my yes?

im jus gonna say what they say... no, its bad. if u keep fantasizing about something illegal it could lead u to actually doing it eventually

[Walrus_au]

Fantasize? yup. Think things all you like. ACTING on it may be a crime (like what you describe)

[lucas262]

16 is the legal age of consent in my state and 30 others, yes I'd date a 16 yr old, anything under that is just weird though I did see several attractive 15 year olds that will be man killers in a few years,

About my family? No god no.

Don't have cousins that ik of.

[mefirst2000]

Lol cum on u kw the answers to this one