Is it ok to sleep with your ex if?

[Anonymous]

She is in a new relationship with another who she actually has a 1 year old child with if he refuses to have sex with her and pushes her away and literally makes her beg and cry for him to have sex with her and he still refuses and hasn't fucked his babys mommy since she has given birth and well before that even? So she contacted me a few weeks ago and basically the conversation through text has come to this? I mean we always had great amazing sex and she is very sexy and kinky and I honestly don't know or understand what his deal is because this chick is smoking hot and takes a dick like a champ and you can tell the way she treats you and fucls you how much she just loves dick and getting railed and so I feel like I am almost obligated to fuck this dudes chick just out of spite or at least because I do care about her and she deserves to get her needs and desires met every once in a while and if he has no interest in doing them step aside feller and let me back at that shit because there is obviously only one good reason she came to me for this and as much as I wanna say Fuck this guy and literally make his lady cum and squirt like a fountain, something inside of me still says it's not right... But it is right right? he's a moron and she needs some good lovin and who am I to push her away like he does them I am just a giant douche like him! So tell me why I need to do it and maybe why I shouldn't? Personally I think he might be in the closet and he is regretting his life so bad for getting drunk and knocking up a female who he is now stuck with even though he isn't into girls... Just my 2 cents because I can see no other reason for it... Especially now with he petite little body and her tits are so big and still perky now like I am shocked and appalled because if I were him I guarantee you my cock would would be hard and wet right now... I hate him so much because he's such an idiot... I'll raise his baby just so I can smash that shit up all day every day. Swear

[Leapfrog00]

I hooked up with my ex for a while there. Really, girls who just want sex aren't relationship material anyway, so the way I see it, this relationship with this man was over long ago. Just be careful because people tend to get heated when it comes to interference with passion. A guy may forgive a person for stealing money from him but stealing his love, people go crazy!

Maybe talk to her and ask her if she's happy with him. A person can spill a lot of secrets in the afterglow of good sex!

[ImHere22]

I didn't even read your entire background statement, but I can tell you right away that you're making a very, very difficult and stressful situation for yourself and your ex. Logically, you should establish a physical distance from your ex and if she needs your help at some point or you two want to talk about whatever, she needs to be the one to reach out, not you.

Be careful, because it's already sounding like it'll end in chaos.

[Xoxocutekitty]

In this situation, you benefit from being the other man.

But if you ever find yourself in a messy but serious relationship, don't come crying when an opportunitist with the same "mentality" comes in a f*cks your woman.

[YesToLife]

Makes sense

[Anonymous]

If she didn’t like him then she should leave. Don’t be brought into this nonsense. No matter if she has a child or not. If you aren’t happy then leave.

[OlderAndWiser]

The two of you obviously enjoy drama!

[SnowedIn]

No. You answered your own question with the first six words. (Thank you, though, for giving us 745,000 words with no line breaks and almost no punctuation.)

She's in a relationship.

Yes, you can sleep with her. But, no, it is not okay.

[Gent207-2]

No and you are no better than he is and this is honestly the beginning of a murder -sucide story of a family

[slatyb]

It sounds like that's not your child. Why would you want to be in the middle of this? Find a new partner.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol.

[SolitaireBlonde]

Yeah it is wrong. You are accomplice to cheating.

[Ms_Facesitter]

It's not.

[runnerboy]

An ex is an ex. But if both of you want sex and it will not mess up her current relationship maybe it is ok. How often is it happening?

[DiegoO]

If she was single with no child and if we clicked like how we clicked online. Coming back to reality: it will never happen in this life. We are an ocean apart and the breakup was almost traumatic; but she's hot AF🔥

[DiegoO]

I don't recommend fooling around an ex who's in a relationship.

[LiamJHayden]

Nope.

[mommymommymommy]

It's never ok to sleep with an ex. YOU SHOULD HAVE NO CONTACT WITH EX'S

[KrakenAttackin]

Nothing good will come from this... but you need to fuck her anyway.

[In_Trance]

stop interacting with your ex

[Anonymous]

You are kinda dumb. You asking people on here for validation to fuck a dudes girl because he won’t fuck her just because she was your ex. And why did you break up with with each other? Stay out their lives if she isn’t adult enough to leave or communicate her needs and desires to him and get out of the relationship in the way she needs too it’s not on you to help her. You aren’t a hero in this scenario.

[Anonymous]

If she doesn’t have feelings when having sex with someone else I say let her do it my wife and I have been together 8 years and once a month she has sex with her ex boyfriend because of a deal we made