Is it okay for a guy to start having sex with you while you’re asleep if you didn’t agree to it before?

[Anonymous]

[Keyboardkat]

Your body belongs to you! You have the right to say no. You have the right to decide who gets access to this tremendous gift of yours. He has no right to just take it, without so much as a by-your-leave! Of course, it may be different if you've been married or been together for ten years or something, and he climbs into bed with you in the early morning and begins. That could be a great and enjoyable wakeup! Unless you're exhausted and want to stay asleep!

[Smd727]

Yes it depends on a lot of things including sexual history together. Maybe she loves to be woken up that way. I’m sure if on occasion she didn’t for whatever reason, she’d let him know

[AviatorTom]

No, a sleeping person cannot give consent. Technically, and legally, that would be rape.

[JamesMI616]

Unless you have previously discussed it and you gave prior consent then it's wrong AF. In fact it's criminal. Even if you don't mind. That's not the point. Consent matters

[Billlewis]

I'd say only if you've been having sex with her previously.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Nope.

Consent is mandatory.

[slatyb]

I wouldn't unless we had been together for a while, and I had previously asked her how she felt about it.

[sashasauce]

Absolutely not. Only case it would be okay is if she specifically asked to be woken up with sex, and I’ve never heard of that happening.

[TomMarks]

I heard a guy brag that a girl liked him to do that, but he had highly questionable standards so who knows.

[DaBiggestBird]

A wee kiss is one thing but all that is just a big no.

[Emily_77]

Absolutely not

[MysteriousDarkness]

If you do not consent to you having sex with them whike they are sleeping and you go ahead and have sex with them anyways you committed raped.

[TonyMetal___86]

Yes, only if he is your husband

[Brady]

no, it's rape

[hbkfan]

Because some girls like getting woken up with sex

[femalepretzelmaker]

If you lay in a bed with a guy then you should expect to be penetrated while asleep
My ex sucked me while I was asleep and then got on and kept going until she squirted it was so intense ill never forget that it was so great

[Nigjt]

Yes I would say as long as u are liking the feel of waking up in that way.
God Bless

[Djaay]

No it's NOT OK. Although that window of doom needs to be spoken of prior to misunderstanding that may develope.

[OddBeMe]

Unless there’s a previous agreement, no.

And if said agreement is reached, get it notarized and have duplicates sent to your attorney. Same answer for anal.

And ooh, anal while asleep…death penalty.

[ronaldo75]

No, it's not. Every ex I penetrated while she was asleep gave me prior permission to do so.

[LunarEclipse433]

That is called rape

[HMZ444]

ABSOLUTELY NOT

[riverrat3]

That would be rape

[Anonymous]

If you didn't agree to that beforehand it is essentially rape.