Is it okay for a married woman to talk to her best friend (male) about sex?

Few months back i found my mom's chat with her best friend and they were talking about sex a lot. The chat wasn't suggesting that they have an affair or something but looked like they are really open about sexual things with each other.
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I have decided to keep quiet for now but if in future i know something more is going on then i am gonna talk to her.
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My mom in engaging in what i can call mild sexting with her friend now. And i don't understand what i should do.
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Superb Opinion

  • I have a lot of girls that are friends and it seems like when they get pissed off that's her husband or boyfriend they want to talk to me about it and there's been many times where we will end up in a sexual conversation and she's just venting it seems like I think or at least that's what I tell myself LOL because there has been many times where the sexual conversation has gotten very very hot

    • This has to be a heartbreaker for you even thinking that it could be true it's almost as if she's cheating on you at the same time because it is your father I understand now where you're coming from it has happened to me I was angry he was my step dad and he got caught with the lady across the street my parents ended up getting divorced they ended up getting married I was ten when it happened but I was angry that he would even do that

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  • No it is not ok. It is either an emotional affair, or an outlet for her sexual frustration. It is betrayal and you can guarantee she's hiding it from the husband. Look at how many in the comments think it is ok, and then take a look at how society relations between men and women are... no loyalty, no monogamy, no boundaries, and high divorce rates. Consider the source...

    You already instinctively know it's not ok too, otherwise you wouldn't have felt the need to ask here.

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  • if you do, you'll end up having sex with him

    • Yep.

    • They are friends since high school. He comes at our house often and it never looked like they think about each other in that way. Also i read lot of that chat but not a single text which suggests that either of them is trying to make something sexual happen with other.

    • It does not matter, they are still pushing it.

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  • Yeah that's fine

    • So i shouldn't be worried?

  • I think if they are friends and it never turns into an affair it is okay. I had a female friend and we used to talk about sex, mostly how neither of us were getting any.

  • Is her best friend a guy or girl?

    • Guy.

  • NO, absolutely not.

  • I personally wouldn’t in that situation.

  • Not at all okay

  • No! This is wrong.

  • I think so, yes.

  • this is not true. Is your mother's friend a man?

  • She should ask her husband what he thinks about this. How would she feel if her husband is talking to his female best friend about the same thing?

  • I think it's okay, not that big of a deal.

  • Yes. As long as neither make advances on each other

  • is mom with dad

    • Yes.

    • maybe she just needs a trusted friend to talk with

    • But why talk about sex so much with a man when you are married and have kids.

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  • I guess it depends on the talk. I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with it, provided both are truly friends and that's the feelings they both have (ie one doesn't like the other as more). I think women often do this with their female friends, probably rare with male friends, but if it's a good strong friendship, nothing necessarily wrong with it.

  • Massive red flag. Not appropriate for a married woman. Why is she not having these conversations with her husband?

    • Their chat looks like friendly funny conversations. Nothing highly sexual

    • Doesn't matter, if i were the husband in that situation, It would make me suspicious