Guys, Is it okay for her to lay on you?

I've texted my ex when we were together that I wanted to crawl on his lap and be a big baby, no baby fantasy or fetishes. I mean I want to sit on his lap and hug him or lay on top of him ( like a chest to chest riding position) and just feel secure and comforted after a stressful week. He didn't say much but I've had other guys call me annoying. I may lay there for 5 minutes to 45 minutes. When I love someone they take my pain away so I like to feel his hugs and hold me while I forget everything. Is that annoying? If so, how do I break the cycle. Mind you its not every single day.
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  • As long as I'm not in the middle of something, that wouldn't bother me at all. I prefer that my girl sits close to me or leans on me. Often, I'll sit in the corner of the couch against a pillow, and she'll lay against me, when we're watching movies. I'm a touchy-feely person anyway, so this isn't a problem for me at all. Not every guy is that way, though.

    • If he's busy like playing a game, on the phone, watching a movie, ill cuddle beside him or behind him. Behind him if he's sitting up busy ill lay down and wrap my stomach against his lower back.

    • In most cases, that's completely fine. Certainly if I was watching TV or otherwise not doing something that took a lot of concentration, then it would be completely fine.

    • Thank you ❤

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  • Sure; that's fine. But you have to be careful with that kinda stuff if you're not married yet. I definitely would only let her lay on me if we were in a public place during the daytime. Because that way I would have a strong incentive to say "CUT" and break up the scene if it started to get too hot (so as not to get arrested for lewd conduct.)

    I think a safer option would be for her to lay on my back with me lying face down. That way she wouldn't be right on my dick.

    • Thanks for the MHO.

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  • Sure! We never last 45 min. though. It seems kinda normal to me, what’s wrong with a cuddle? We do this on occasion watching tv for example

    • My thoughts exactly!

  • Sounds good I wouldn't have problems with that. Very often my girlfriend sits on my lap faceing me and we kiss and cuddle. Though only do this if your suggesting doing other things together it's a very arrousing position 😉

  • 45 minutes could be a bit much.

  • I wouldn't mind at all as long as I'm not busy. Personally find that sort of thing cute, plus it'd ease my mind as well knowing I could make someone that happy.

  • Sounds healthy to me.

  • That's completely fine. There's nothing wrong with it. Maybe physical touch is your love language?

    • Absolutely is. I can't keep my hands to myself. Its like I become a drug addict and his touch takes away the pain and withdrawals. Embarrassingly I had an ex from decades ago run his hands down my sides and back. I orgasamed..

    • Nice.

  • Nah. I love clinging and physical affection. Hugs, touching, cuddling of all kinds. It's the best.

    • Pure medicine 😍

  • That sounds great. I love that feeling too.

  • I would love that

  • Lay on me all day babe.

    • Id love that!

    • Nice!

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