Is it okay for my boyfriend to be this focused on my butt?

When my boyfriend and I cuddle he wants me to lay down on top of him and he rubs my ass. Sometimes he wants me to lay on my back and massage my butt and smacks it. Then he randomly sits me on his lap and bends me over and rub my stomach.
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  • I think way too many younger guys place way too much emphasis on the butt of women. I literally get annoyed at the constant questions of boobs, butt, or anal sex/play on here.

    Now is a cute natural bum on a woman sexy? Of course as long as it’s not artificially inflated to look like the nasty Kardashian women and modern porn/fashion. The butt in and of itself is not as beautiful unless it’s part of the woman though. So objectification is not really very pretty. I’m more into the smiling beautiful face of a Goddess and learning her personality, interests, dreams, hopes, etc. With than, then the desire to associate her with her body is wonderful.

    The butt however isn’t defining of her as a woman. If we’re going to place any emphasis in a beautiful body part that is 100 feminine, it is her vulva and vagina. Aside from her face and personality, the naturally hairy mature vulva/vagina is the next most beautiful thing because it is representative of her womanhood which is why I’d be interested in her, not her parts that a man also has. It’s time that men of all ages relearn how to properly and naturally see a woman as she is created, and to do it giving her dignity, respect, and adoration. It’s time to stop learning unnatural ideas from porn, fashion, reality TV, etc.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Most men have at least one body part fetish. He was born that way. Does it portend a strong desire for anal sex? Not sure. Did with me.

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  • He sounds like a man who’s found a treasure and now can’t keep his hands off of it.

    Enjoy him, while he enjoys your butt.

  • How does he rub your ass when you are on your back?

    • Yeah I was reading that like for five times and I was thinking what the hell

  • Mildly annoying for you I bet

  • He's simply showing affection that is why he does it

  • No that's pretty normal what's not normal is if he only wants anal sex and never vaginal that's not normal and any guy who says otherwise that's not f****** normal I'm telling you

  • I think he just finds your ass to be hot. He is your boyfriend don't hesitate to talk with him, ask why if you don't like it. After all it's normal for guys to adore the booty.

  • He has an ass fetish, hehe.

  • Do you like it or not? If not then tell him to stop

  • He just likes how it feels, nothing wrong with that lol. But honestly he does need to focus on other things

  • do you like it or is it more just annoying to you? and its pretty common for guys to do that. do you have a really nice ass?

  • would you rather he not be in to it at all?

  • If it’s not a bother, than chalk up to sexual obsession over you.

  • Of course, it must look hot :)

  • Yes, I do all these too haha

  • It's okay. He may also be hoping for anal sex.

  • So what's wrong with that?

    • Most attractive bit of fat on a girl !

  • Have you had anal sex with him? If he keeps focusing on your ass, that is probably what he wants.

  • It’s fine, he loves your body besides you

  • he likes your ass he thinks you have a hot ass