Is it okay for my boyfriend to record video of other girls?

Nana323 Xper 2

Hi I been with my boyfriend for over 6 years now and I always knew about his foot fetish doesn't bother me that he has pictures of foot models or follows foot models in Instagram or Facebook but recently I found videos of his co-workers shoes , well you know working or walking around! I find it disrespectful at times and told him about it but I don't know how to feel about this ! Should I fel upset or should I leave it alone? Please help

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Well before I let you guys know what happened I would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone who posted their opinions. Because, like everyone knows sometimes it's hard to talk to our friends and family about certain situations. But having a place like this it's makes everything better. Well I spoked to my boyfriend and he apologized to me about the videos and promised not to do it again. Also I kind understand because I'm practically his first girlfriend but we are good now thanks agai

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0112358 Master
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Yeah that’s totally unacceptable behaviour.

He can’t have it be a fetish then turn around and act like it’s not a fetish.

If he was walking around recording his coworkers cleavage or asses you’d dump him And HR would fire him.

To him: this is no different.
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matheus_mb Guru
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I don't think it's okay. If he's with you he shouldn't be looking for the feet of other women he knows, principally his coworkers.
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- Nana323
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  That's what I thought too but I feel like I'm being a crazy jealous girlfriend and I don't want him to feel like I am
- matheus_mb
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  I see the point, but you're not being crazy or jealous. You just expect the correct thing.

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TheFriendlyOne Xper 5
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You should feel upset, if he is fetishising feet, would be okay for him to take pictures of coworkers asses if he had an ass fetish?
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- Nana323
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  ? I don't think you read my question correctly! Sorry
- TheFriendlyOne
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  Let me rephrase. If he had an ass fetish, would it be okay for him to take pictures of his coworkers asses and jack off to it? I hope not. Its the same with feet because he has a fetish for feet. So, you should be upset.
- Nana323
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  thanks and know right
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- TheFriendlyOne
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  I'm sorry that you have to go through this, but I'm sure you'll take a decision which is the best for youself
- Nana323
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  Thank you I appreciate everyone taking time in their busy schedules to help me out :)
Anonymous
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If it bothers then tell him he must stop. But I've never heard of a foot fetish with shoes on. That's strange.
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- Nana323
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  I talk to him about it already but his answer was that he didn't think with his big head at the time and that his urge's took over his decision because we are a bit apart right now cause I'm visiting my family in Cali and his Virginia but is still not a good excuse for him to do that. So I told him that if I found out again about this I'm gonna leave him no questions ask I'm just gonna leave
- Opinion Owner
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  I think you made the right decision. The only feet he should be admiring are yours.
- Nana323
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  Yeah and I actually have very cute feet I always try to take care of them the best I can
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- Opinion Owner
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  Maybe you can send him some pics while he's away.
- Nana323
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  I done that I also send him videos clips and we FaceTime a lot too. Since the beginning of our relationship he told me about his fetish I actually searched for info online and looked at videos just to learn how to please him but Im guessing that he's not happy with what I do? For him?

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PondyPand Master
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That is disrespectful and creepy!
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nerms123 Guru
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He sounds too obsessed with his fetish.
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- Nana323
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  I'm gonna talk to him about it today and thanks to everyone who answered my post I will post an update about it later on have a great day
somewhatsentient Xper 5
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Dude i wouldn't even talk to that freak.
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OrangeBoy2 Xper 6
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Well, yeah... you have good reasons.
He's becoming a freak...

I reccomend a relaxed talk. Avoid negativity.
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Iron_Man Master
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You should feel upset it's not right
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- Nana323
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  You think so? I talked to him about it. I also found out he live chat too and he apologized to me about it but he still doing it not knowing I can still see it on browser history
- Iron_Man
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  He's getting too carried away something like that could lead to cheating in the future
- Nana323
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  thanks I appreciate your opinion and will talk to him about it today ;)
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- Iron_Man
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  Awesome good work and I hope it works out for you let me know what happens
- Nana323
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  Sure will thanks have a good weekend
- Iron_Man
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  You to have nice day
Valnac Guru
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I think it’s kinda creepy.
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PrinceOfAljazeera Xper 7
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leave him alone, let the man do his thing ffs
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billyboy000000 Xper 4
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A foot fetish is sexual, so he is jacking off to these feet
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- Nana323
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  Yeah I believe so But I still try my best in helping him with his desires I even FaceTime him while I'm at work just to keep him happy but I guess is not enough :(
- billyboy000000
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  Do you let him jack off to your feet, and probably cum on your feet
Anonymous
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Leave him
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