Is it okay that I’ve never had sex?

I am 20 and the idea scares me. Is that normal? I think guys are very cute and I do have a crush but the idea of becoming sexual is scary to me.
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  • It scared us all.
    My daughters never had sex before they were married, and they each had three children! So, something is working there.

    In fact, one daughter didn't even kiss her husband until after they were married, to be sure it wasn't just a physical/sexual attraction.

  • That’s okay, it’s perfectly fine. Sex ended up being disappointing for me. So I think you should just keep having high hopes of it. Once you actually do it you might be disapponted

  • There are a lot of males who are sexless until they reach their 30's.
    So u don't have to worry about it.
    Don't lose your virginity to a wrong guy.

  • No it's not ok. You're weird.

    • Well gee thanks! I also like to engage in beetle fighting and taxidermy. So there’s that. (Kidding)

    • Well when you're not having sex it's good to pick up some hobbies.

    • Well then maybe I should dabble in some competitive duck herding.

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  • If your not ready for sex then stick with masturbation I didn't lose my virginity in'till I was twenty-four years of age with an eighteen-year-old girl. 💞

  • lol. at my 20 I’ve never had too

  • Nothing wrong with that.

  • Of course its ok, but your missing out on lots of pleasure and fun, so try to ignore being scared and just go for it. Consider having sex with a guy friend, that will make it easier.

  • Girl, I’m 33yo and still haven’t had more than a few super casual dates. Not even a first kiss. I’m waiting for the right person, looking for friendship and hoping it will grow beyond that. I’m not trying to get in bed with everyone and judging them as a person in the bedroom. I’m waiting for marriage.

  • My current girlfriend claims she has never had intercourse and she is 29, we haven't gotten intimate yet but I know we will one day soon

  • Its normal

  • I think it's normal to be somewhat terrified about sex. I think everyone is until they do. My girlfriend was a virgin at 33. So I don't really care ic a girl is a virgin as long as she's not waiting for marriage

  • its not unusual or not unheard for people to either still be a virgin or not have sex until sometime in their 20s

  • I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that

    • Thanks ❤️

  • It's ok

  • Of course it is

  • That's very understandable. There's pain to be had, and there's reason to fear pregnancy, but if you find the right one, that's willing to take it as slow as you need, it'll probably be all right.

  • Your first time can be scary. Wait until you are ready.

  • That's fine. Wait until you are ready

  • The right time to have sex is when you know you are ready to have sex. Don't let anyone tell you different. Nothing at all wrong with not having sex.

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