Is it okay to ask my wife for a prostate massage?

[Anonymous]

Feel embarrassed because I know she isn't really into it but I really like it, is it wrong to ask for it?

[TCredo]

Communication is key - so hopefully you can feel comfortable with asking her stuff like this and that she is also comfortable asking you whatever she might like. She might not know that the prostate is the male G spot - and how amazing it feels when it is pleasured. If she is not into it, you could always get a toy to use with her - maybe after she gets comfortable to use the toy, she might want to try with her finger. One suggestion though... do a thorough cleaning - including an enema - before even using the toy with her... she might be more willing to give it a try if she knows the "poo" factor has been eliminated.

[TCredo]

thanks for the mho

[Lucky1974]

Of course it’s acceptable for you to make such a request
you to make such a request. From my personal experiences having a prostate massage done to me with her wearing disposable latex gloves and no lube makes the orgasms so much more INTENSE and EXPLOSIVE. I have also had my girlfriends perform a prostate massage to me using their condom-gloved-foot, with me lying on the floor on my front, even better.

[windinmyhat]

I got asked for by a few guys to do it during dating periods

[cootjuh]

And what did you answer?

[windinmyhat]

Please message

[Asker]

Well I guess that makes mr feel less embarrassed so ty

[mistixs]

If she doesn't want to do it, then get a prostate vibrator.

[Asker]

I have one, but I dont often have the time and/or privacy to utilize it and it is nottt the same.

[foxrider77]

Just get a vibrating plug

[Dargil]

No, it is not.
*You've got to dispel the association with homosexuality.
*She has to understand it is not degrading, just as fingering a vagina is not.
*It is an acquired skill and should be done like a therapist. There is a "right way" to do it.
*Overcome the poo factor with a surgical glove.
*She doesn't have to be "into it" any more than guys giving oral but only out of love.

[mistixs]

A difference between anal fingering, & guys giving oral, is that oral is necessary for many women to orgasm, whereas anal fingering is not necessary for men to orgasm.

[Dargil]

@mistixs Why is that difference relevant?

[mistixs]

you said "she doesn't have to be "into it" any more than guys giving oral but only out of love"

[Dargil]

@mistixs Out here in the real world of sex, we do what we can to serve out partner's appetites.

[mistixs]

Anal fingering is gross though.

[Dargil]

@mistixs That's why the glove. My opinion is once you are sexualized, your Ewww factor will subside. If I read right, it's all just theory with you now.

[MannySimms]

You can't always get what you want; but you just might find, you get what you need.

Keep trying toys till you find one that suits you. Let her control it. Sybian?

[Asker]

Love the stones, but I do prefer the Beatles.

[MannySimms]

I guess you could use stones, but beetles would be yucky!

[CocoBat]

Why not?

[Asker]

Because I know she isn't into it, even if she is willing to do it. So it feels selfish.

[munichguy]

Your wife should also be your confident and best friend. If you don't share your desires with her, whom to?
That does not mean that she necessarily agrees...
Just try

[bangyourhead]

Go for it. But if she's not into it, don't be surprised if she says 'no'

[OddBeMe]

Uhh... The whole point for guys is to look sexy to their partner as often as possible. You ask for a prostate massage and your sex life will disappear. Such that it is, I’m guessing.

[esotericstory]

Yeah, its to prevent cancer.

[CT_CD]

It's okay. If she refuses to do it then she is a selfish lover

[beatcoock]

No, You can ask her