Is it okay to date a minor if you are waiting until marriage to have sex?

Of course I am only talking about people who are 16 or 17. But since I am waiting until marriage to have sex should it be problematic for me to date a minor? Especially since I want to date a virgin; and as people get older there are fewer and fewer virgins.
Yes, it is okay. You aren't having sex after all.
Vote A
Yes, the age of consent is less than 18 in most areas; so even with out this stipulation it would still be okay.
Vote B
Maybe, this seems to be a grey area.
Vote C
No, because you'll probably won't wait anyway.
Vote D
No, they are still a minor.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I dated a girl who was 17 when I was 22. I didn't know she was so young at the time but she was so nice that I wanted to go out with her. I knew that I would not be having sex with her and was totally fine with it.

    • Thank you for the MHO 😊😊😊

  • Not for me; I'd be locked up.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No. No. No. If a guy asked this people would be outraged. This is no different. What you're asking is if it's okay to groom kids, and *surprise* - it is not!

  • Minor means NO

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  • You’re at least 30 asking if dating a minor is acceptable?

    • Well I didn't want to; but I am tired of being single and only seem to get serious interest from minors.

  • I would assume as long as the parents are ok with it and no court laws are being broken then i would say yes

    • Where are you from and how long have you known her or been dating him?

    • Missouri, I haven't been dating anyone. Just thought I would gauge the acceptability before pursuing this as it seems that minors are the only one who I seem to get legitimate interest from.

    • Well beautiful i can tell you that i wish i had you when i was 9-17 years old lmfao 😂 i started jacking off when i was 9 and ever since i was always trying so hard to get with girls and women a lot older than me. I was a horny little bastard lol 🤣

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  • Defeats the purpose of waiting for marriage

  • It might seem morally wrong, and you can't change your mind about waiting for marriage because you can't have sex with them, so that's a downside.

  • Your age? No!

  • It's ok

  • I think you should give people over 18 a shot. I’d date a women who was waiting.

    • If you want to follow me I’d love to chat

  • message me please.

  • Not for me its not. Can i ask why your doing this vause you seem like a sweetheart surely you can find someone thats your age

    • Most of the people I run into my own age online turn out to be scam artists.

    • I wish you weren't anonymous i want to follow you. Follow me and ill follow you back

  • I have no idea, I don't want to answer yes because I don't need people thinking i'm ok with adults having sex with minors (i'm 16 by the way almost 17). . . but for me personally if I got to know said person I don't think I would exactly deny, but I wouldn't agree until 18 just to be completely safe. . . I don't want anyone getting arrested or getting hated after all.

  • Check you local laws and you should also ask the child's baby sitter for permission

    • A baby sitter at 16

  • Age gap is too large.

  • There are plenty of us virgin guys who aren't minors. Why not stick with us?