Is it okay to fantasize about a person sexually but he/she doesn’t know that you fantasize about them?

Just in case it could be a famous person who is known as a prude. Do you think it is okay to fantasize about them sexually.. or is it wrong?

For religious people, is it a sin to fantasize about someone sexually without them knowing it at all?

By the way I have had a confusing opinion about this.
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  • Well, even though I know its wrong and I'd never act on it. I fantasize about my mother in law. I dont mean to, but I just think she is attractive and I just really like certain things that she has in common with my wife.
    For the record my wife knows, so the things that I like aren't terrible

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  • You can fantasize about anyone you want. I have fantasized about giving her oral until she passed out. I didn't need her permission.

    Is it okay to fantasize about a person sexually but he/she doesn’t know that you fantasize about them?

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  • I think it's a normal behavior, I'd say lot of people fantasize about another person. It is totally safe if it stays in your mind

  • I think everyone fantasizes about a person (s) they know. I do it all the time.

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  • Fantasize and masturbate, and even get off, loving your fantasies about them!! How is that wrong?

  • Isn't the purpose to fantasising about someone to imagine doing things with them that they don't have to know about. It's harmless so long as you don't get obsessed with them and become a stalker.

  • Why wouldn't it be ok? You're not hurting them in any way.

  • As long as you don't act upon it in the context of rape and pedophilia, then I don't really see what's wrong.

  • lmao
    who cares if they know or not?
    many people fantasize celebrities, do celebrities know it? noooo.
    but asked it according Religious purpose too. so yes its sin to fantasize anyone, no matter if you know them or not, fantasizing someone is sin.

  • It's okay

    • What if it is about someone you probably shouldn't? Like in my case, no matter how hard I try, my mother in law drives me crazy. Has since day 1. Every time I feel like I finally get past it, she'll do something else to me that starts it back up. It doesn't help that the things I am turned on by with my wife, came from her mom. They aren't like nasty things, just g rated things that my wife likes that turn me on. Screw it, ill just say it. I have always liked the way slouch socks look on women. I have since it was the style. My wife still wears them all the time when she wears pants or is around the house, even sometimes with shorts. I like it a lot. Its harmless and isn't any more than just me liking how they look. The problem is, that her and her mom trade and share different ones. She took some from her mom the very first time I picked her up for a date, 19 years ago. It didn't take long to realize that, her mom pretty much only wears them. So I can't get away from that. Well, my wife has a thing for sitting on or in things that shake. Washing machines, cars that idle rough, or anything that shakes. Again, I am all for it. When we started dating I had a jeep that shook pretty bad when it idled and she instantly loved it. Unfortunately, as soon as her mom saw it running one day, she jumped in and said, well no wonder my daughter likes you so much.

    • Here's a secret, always leave it running if she's in it. Well, turns out, her mom has an old subaru that shakes and bounces and is way too shaky to justify leaving it running. Well anytime we were with her, it was on. She'd leave us alone in it, then ask how bad it got while she was gone. She just made things beyond awkward, knowing that her daughter has liked being in this car with her since she was little. So even though that's a lot more detail than I ever wanted to share. I just can't help but be reminded all the time. My wife even loves every time her mom makes me uncomfortable, so I think ill always fantasize about it

  • If you are the person of guilty pleasure, you cannot avoid doing this. Just try to enjoy it. The person you fantasize can’t be hurt as he or she doesn’t know anything about it.

  • not at all.. if this was a sin then 99 percent would be committed to this sin.. all people do imagine all persons fucking and banging

  • I think most people have been doing that since they’re a kid

  • Ummm... for the really religious, it's sinful to have sexual thoughts about anyone but your married partner! Where'd you come up with the idea that it's ok if they know about it, and not if they don't?

  • Sure. it's fine.

  • Yeah sure.

  • Why don't you just ask him out?

    • It’s not about me fantasizing

  • Fantasy is almost always one sided feeling.

  • i think religiously it would be wrong because ur "committing adultery" in your mind... however with that being said, its only a fantasy, its not happening for real, so why not let the imagination go wild? its only in your head after all.

  • I don't see anything wrong with this unless you become obsessed.

  • Why are you asking?

  • Nothing wrong in fantasizing on someone. I have done it many times. It allows you the option of visualizing the possibilities. It's what you do with those thoughts that matters.

  • Its your mind its ok as long as you know the oerson might bot want to be with you an you can know this an except it in your mind

  • There is no mind control or monitoring yet so feel free to think whatever you want.

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