Is it okay to have sex with your fbuddy while dating someone else?

[Anonymous]

[Henry_-_Blakes]

While dating someone else, okay. While in a relationship, not okay

[DGravez6]

No. That's a little thing called CHEATING

[laurieluvsit]

If the 'someone else' is ok with it, than yes

[AwesomeCookie]

Of course, but I'm sure the person you're dating will more than likely want to know (not be kept in the dark) and will probably not like you doing that

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

You’re a cheater. No. Break up with your partner.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Why don't you ask the person you're dating if he's okay with you fucking your fbuddy while dating him.. And then too, are you okay with the person you're dating fucking his fbuddy while dating you? And if so, why you all even dating then...🤷🏼‍♀️

[Aerissa_Jade]

Sure, you are not keeping anything a secret right, so they know about it I assume, and are okay with it?

If it is secret, could perhaps they be doing the same thing to you? are you having sex with the person you are dating too?

[bones_20]

So you are asking if it’s ok to cheat on the person you are dating?

[vald9inches]

How is it cheating if they are still dating?

[bones_20]

How is it not? When you’re dating someone generally that means you shouldn’t be fucking someone else behind there back.

[SarcasticBrother]

facts

[bones_20]

I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not 👀

[vald9inches]

Because you are not officially together part

[bones_20]

Ok so you’re saying it’s ok to fuck someone else while you’re dating someone, but as soon as you make it official you’ll stop fucking the other person? Oh my god. The stupidity of people. I can’t. 😑

[vald9inches]

Why is that stupid? If it goes both ways and their relationship is not official? Like i can understand if you were to say its not polite to do that or you wouldn't personally do it but you have the option to. I dont see anything wrong with dating multiple people until you settle on one and the same also goes with friends with benefits or whatever.

[bones_20]

It’s not about the friends with benefits. It’s about the person she’s dating. They clearly don’t know and haven’t said they are ok with it, otherwise she’d have no reason to be questioning if it’s ok.

[SnakeBoop]

does the person you're dating know you're fucking around?
or are you cheating?

[ChrisMaster69]

Is the dating side of things exclusive?
do both the person you are dating and your fuck buddy know this is happening?
are they are aware of possible increased risk of STDs?

if not then it’s cheating and pathetic

everyone needs to know what’s going on.

for example having sex with your Fuck buddy might be fine, however they might be disgusted if they find out you are dating and cheating.

[RobT312]

Depends. If you both agreed to an open relationship and you guys know you are seeing other people then yes.
otherwise it’s cheating

[MrCommodore]

No, fuck buddy's are supposed to scratch an itch while searching for a suitable relationship partner.

If you are in a relationship and still need that itch scratched by a fuck buddy, time to dump your relationship and move on.

[molonski2]

I think it is , just dont tell the person you are dating , as at this point you need to cover all bases , so you dont want to loose your go to fbudy :) do both..

[Lowiu]

As long as you're not exclusive you can but be sure it won't come back to bite you

[spartan55]

Sure, if you're a ho.

[dustybiker]

Is it okay for the person you are dating to do the same?

[integrale77]

No it isn't have some respect for the person your dating and tell your fbuddy they are being demoted to buddy status.

[SamIam96]

There's an expectation that you aren't having sex outside the relationship. Why are you still?

[Bricealan]

Yes, based on my experiences and what a girlfriend here in CA told me. I am sure to get a lot of 'shit' from other women here, for my answer.

Several years ago, I had a 'long distance' girlfriend that I had in college, and we hooked up later, after her divorce. We fucked here in CA and in Ohio, when I flew there. While doing that, my hairdresser fixed me up with one of her customers. We went out and sucked and fucked on our first date. (Lucky me) Crazy me sent flowers the next day.

When I called her, she said an 'old boyfriend' called her and wanted to go out and she said she "wanted to see if there was anything still there". Okay with me!
Meanwhile, my girlfriend in Ohio was still coming out to visit and we were still fucking, so I had two 'potential fucks' at the same time.

I told my friend here in CA about it and her answer was "I think you should fuck them both, since most of my girlfriend are fucking different guys". So, based on that, I felt justified in fucking both, one, when she was visiting, and the other when my Ohio friend was back in Ohio.

Stupid me did not have the balls to continue both of these good fucks simultaneously

[UniquelyBasic]

You shouldn't be wasting your partners time if you just want to sleep around with other people.

[humpbackjack]

That would depend on your relationship. Have you both sat down and discussed the type of relationship you guys want? Or are you guys just kinda letting it happen? Because even if you both want to see how the relationship plays out you’re still in some type of relationship and you need to be honest about seeing other people. He deserves the chance to make a choice of whether he’s cool with it or not. Now if you’ve just dated a few times then I’d say you don’t owe him anything but me personally I would let them know right off that you’re not looking for anything serious right now and you’re just having fun

[Drumlin2001]

Casually dating and not talked bout exclusivity then maybe.
Suppose question is how would you feel if they were doing the same. If it would bother you, chances are it would bother them. It would be worth a conversation on expectations