Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it okay to not want to give blowjobs?
Lexie1239 Xper 5
I just started dating my boyfriend and we just started having sex , recently my friend was talking to us and mentioned she gave head to someone my boyfriend kinda made a comment saying he would want that too but I just am not about it or just maybe not ready yet I don't know do I have too he gives me head so I guess right :/
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6 42You don't have to if you don't want to. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do.
... But you're already f*cking him, so I don't see why not. (Just my opinion.)
sure, but don't expect him to give you oral either.
Hell yeah its ok
Yea as of now I don't feel comfortable about giving head but I don't mind fingering.
I’d be fine with it. I’ve gotten maybe 5 in my whole life and I’d prefer regular sex over blowjobs.
It is generally a two way street in relationships.
It's all about give and take, you don't have too but if he stops then don't complain, also don't complain if he's not hard enough for sex, oral helps a lot with that
No I don't think it's ok. I dont understand your logic
It's a bit selfish, but if you really don't want to don't expect cunnilingus either.
You like what you like and you don't what you don't. There's no rule about jabbing to give head, but it's very common and very enjoyable for the recipient. Maybe you'll work up to it and get comfortable with it, but if not, it's ok.
Lol wats wrong with sucking on his knob
How dare you have boundaries! (Sarcasm)
It's fine. You and your partner should be open an honest about everything, including sex. If you're not ready, you're not ready. And even if you decide never to do it. That's okay too.
You don't really HAVE TO, but it's working against you. It's minus some points in his book if you don't do something that he likes and he also does the same thing for you, especially when it's something as normal and regular as a blowjob.
Yes!
You don’t have to do anything you don’t want too
You dont have to if you're not comfortable doing it. Dont force yourself to do something you dont enjoy because he wants it. Be honest with him about how you feel
I think it’s ok not to
I do t like blowjobs either so I can understand
Hate to tell you this but he'll find some one who will
Its ok