So my boyfriend and I had a fight 2 and a half weeks ago, not a very big fight just him annoying me for the hundredth time and I haven’t wanted to have sex since then. Nor any physical affection. Until I get over the fight I don’t want to have sex or do anything sexual.
Boyfriend thinks I’m punishing him and it’s unfair because he has apologised for the fight. I don’t believe it is, I can’t force myself to want to have sex.
What Girls & Guys Said
10 28Yes. Anyone who says no is agreeing to rape.
You not wanting to have sex is different than withholding sex "to punish him". You aren't punishing him, tell him that you aren't withholding it to punish him, you just can't get in the mood. If you were doing it to punish him, that's wrong. I told my girlfriend that if she ever uses sex as a bargaining chip I will dump her. It's a stupid and childish thing to do.
Using sex as a weapon will (correctly) make him dump you.
just let him go get some somewhere else if you don't want to take care of him
Sure, but, seems a bit immature to, right?
Like "it's either my way, or no way". That's not a healthy relationship
whatever works for you
Yes, your not in mood for it because you don't like the way he treated you. That's how you truly feel. It's ok to acknowledge that.
No. You are being a very bad girlfriend.
You should make sex with him and let him fuck you hardest he can for punishment, after you and him would be happy...
I have a lot of thoughts on this.
Are you punishing him? It’s upto you what you do but don’t expect any choice without consequences.
…. I’m fucking a guy with a angry girlfriend like that haha but you do you it will cause resentment you should get over yourself real quick
it's your choice
No that’s terrible
Sure if you're not than someone else...
We get sex easily everywhere