Is it okay to sexually choke a girl without consent?

[Anonymous]

Spoiler: IT'S NOT.

I'm just upset that a couple guys over the past years have taken that liberty as if it was nothing. Any similar experiences? I was so perplexed in the moment that I didn't complain until afterwards, but it's this aggressive sex culture that I'm so upset about.

Agreeing to sex does not mean agreeing to every possible kink!!!

That's all I had to say tbh

[Anonymous]

I got chocked once during sex and until then I didn't know I liked it. It was the surprise that made me feel aroused. So, no, I wouldn't say that you have to ask always what someone wants. You explore together and find things out.
If you don't like some things particularly, say it from the start. If you don't like buttstuff SAY IT. Then it's clear. I get that you can't sum the whole list, but chocking and butt stuff are vital things atm, so if you are not into it. Say it.

Nevertheless, you have to be careful with chocking. We never chocke for more than 5 seconds. And not that hard...

[AustinMan]

I completely agree with you. That's why I wrote down this practice of mine.

How To Ask a New Prospective Lover for Sex (The way you want it) ↗

[BlckGrl]

No. It happened to me once for a quick second (also being slapped) i was very fearful but brushed it off because I like rough. So no it's not okay because some people won't just brush it off.

[boredguy01]

No and I think anyone who does that has zero respect for you

[Asker]

I think it goes beyond having 0 respect. It's truly abusive behavior, more so if he doesn't even ask about it!! You're so right

[boredguy01]

Yeah I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years so I know pretty well what she'd consent to and I still wouldn't choke her without asking

[ItsTheNephilim]

Of course not.

[Dargil]

I would not do that id she asked.

[Zbrody1997]

when it comes to sex everyone is different usually if your gonna have sex, with a partner and not a one night stand, you Two talk about your likes and dislikes, i dont know a single woman who wants a guy to stop mid sex to ask to do something, and if you do then hey thats your thing but you can't expect everyone to live by your standards. so really just like most subjects there is a grey area where yes it is okay to sexually choke your partner

[moreno8120]

Of course not

[B2281]

Absolutely not.

[mndmatt30]

I really don't think that's cool

[ginnipigg]

No, never ever!! End of discussion!

[Anonymous]

"sexually choke" is not a thing... choking is not sexual, its jus called choking... thats like saying "is it ok to sexually kill someone?"

[Opinion Owner]

sex and violence should not be in the same category... and girls who put that in same category are jus weirdos... why dont y'all go to jeffrey dahmers house? he can choke fuck u if thats what u want u weirdos

[Opinion Owner]

is it ok to "sexually cut off your leg"?

[Opinion Owner]

"i wanna sexually beat you"

[Opinion Owner]

hold up... let me sexually put this scolding hot iron across your leg... its ok because its sexual

[Opinion Owner]

ima sexually push u down the stairs cos that turns me on

[Opinion Owner]

i mean aslong as their is no force used in the "sexual choke" im ok with it... but i have a feeling that people who do for sexual purposes actual grab them tight and try to stop them breathing... thats fucked up u murder sexual freak

[Asker]

I agree with you but you have to admit these practices are used commonly enough to be a thing... Sad as it may be!!

[Asker]

Denying them isn’t gonna make them go away!! That’s why I asked in the first place and there are indeed some who think it’s somewhat okay depending on the context... It’s so not!!!

[Opinion Owner]

weird lol, i jus hope there is no force used in the choke and no degree of actual strangulation, if its literally jus holding their throat then that is fine

[Asker]

I think it's a very thin line - even if it's just grabbing my throat I'd like my partner to discuss it beforehand. I get that everyone has different kinks just be an adult and talk them through

[Opinion Owner]

yeah