Is It Okay To Wake Your Partner Up With A Blowjob?

Or Should You Ask FIRST? Does It Matter?
Please Explain Your Answer...
Please Explain Your Answer...
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Follow Up Question: If You Answer "NOT Okay"... How Would You Prefer To Be Woken Up? A Bat Perhaps? ⚾
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I don't want to be a rapist so I probably just won't do it unless I ask him FIRST but then it's not a surprise anymore and it's boring😞... I thought two consenting partners would enjoy these types of intimate surprises but maybe they don't 🤷... Glad I asked this question!!! Thanks for your help!
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  • Of the dozens of guys I’ve woken up with BJs over the years, I’ve never once had a guy be anything but thrilled.

  • Unless it's part of your regular boy girl games and neither of you are punching a time clock, due too you both being independently wealthy and all, and you've done the comprehensive criminal-medical background check for DTSS from deployment in whatever hell hole your partner may, or may not have, been handing Charlie's their own asses for a living, I'd avoid tempting fate and let him or her get their beauty sleep.

    • Interesting way to say no go ahahahaha! Love your post

    • Thanks. Unfortunately, I returned stateside with a diagnosis of Gulf War Syndrome. My Grandpa's condition, shell shock from WW2. My Uncle Mark called it "Die!!! You pinko Charlie motherf------s" or VC for short, in Vietnam. His was the worst case because everytime a Medivac flew low over his house, he'd be out there empteunng his 12 guage pump up into that direction. Sleep shooting, since he was dreaming they were Vietcong when it happened. Funny, on the surface of it, unless it hits close too home for someone.

    • Oh I'm sorry

  • In theory it's "Not Okay" after all each time a guy has sex with a girl (wife, partner, girlfriend, friends with benefits and One night stands) he has to have her consent otherwise it could legally be considered Rape. However talking practically I've not ever heard of a guy getting pissed off?

    • That's a huge thing to consider for sure!

    • Yet as I said I've never actually heard of any guy complaining about it since they are "partners" however as said on a legal level they could claim it wasn't consensual and that would be true. personally I'd love for it to happen since it says that they find me desirable enough that they can't just be patient and wait foe me to wake up to start. 😜

    • Oh you just need to read the comments lol

  • I would love this.. :)

    • Yessssss

  • Wake me up with a sloooow, easy handjob. Then when I am awake and hard, Rock And Roll!!

    • This post is fantastic! Ahahahaha 🤣🙈🔥!!! You're sooooooo freaking AWESOME

  • Please do, i would love to be woken up by a blowjob. Hell i would love to be woken up period with my cock being played with. I have never had it happen yet but i think that is the best way to wake up and no you dont need to aske me first it you want to suck or play with my cock when im sleeping. Thats what it is there for.

    • You have incredible energy! I enjoyed reading your thoughts sooooooo MUCH! You Rock 🔥👏

  • Ladies when ur thinking of doing things like this then just do it men kove this dont give any second thoughts.

    • Great post

  • I've never had any complaints 🤣

    • Cool 😎

  • I'm in love with you... Oh yes I can't even think of why anyone would complain about that... I think the girls should have the answer with if they like to get woke up being played with

    • I still haven't read the replies but I looked at your update and I would guess that guy said that they didn't like that... Personally I think to consenting adults that have make a commitment with each other that anything the other person does that isn't painful should be okay I mean sure there's times when it be like I'm not in the mood but that would be a rarity I would think if you really care for the other person and you both are trying to make each other enjoy their sexual life to the fullest and then I don't even understand I mean if you could make me hard and get on me I wouldn't mind if my partner had sex with me I mean I would like to wake up and enjoy coming but or at least remember it is a nice dream I still can't wrap my mind around any guy having a problem with that

    • Thanks for responding to both the main question and update! I haven't tried anything yet but I'm undecided if I will in the future

    • Well in case you're don't have a cooperative person to experiment on maybe I should give you my address... lol

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  • Oh wow, I would love to wake up to one.. Mmmmmm!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😋😋😋😋LMFAO !!!

    • 🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @secret6620 LMFAO Hahahha!!!

  • I would not complain.. its happened a few times in my life. I figured that it would be acceptable to wake her up in the same fashion. I once tried waking her up with me inside her. I didn't know that she was not feeling well that whole night and the rest of that day. I didn't try it again.

    • That was kinda sad to read😞

    • It's ok.

  • Absolutely it is ok. Not sure of many gits who would object. It's extremely hot to be woken up this way

    • Thanks for the AWESOME feedback! Super helpful ✨

  • Oh please do this every morning.
    I'd go to work afterwards with a smile on my face.

    • This post made me smile ahahahaha 😆

    • I've had the exquisite pleasure of my wife doing this to me only twice. :( But it made my day. Just the feeling coming to your senses, feeling that usual morning-wood in the morning (men have high testosterone levels in the morning), but now feeling that it's being stimulated further... hmm. Just to look down and see a ur girl/woman between the sheets sucking away... When you cum it feels like fireworks.

    • That's hot

  • If you're in a relationship but don't see why not.

    • My thinking exactly! Thanks for the awesome feedback! You Rock 👏

  • thats something to negotiate as a part of the social contract between the 2 of you. personally i would be fine with something along those lines sometimes but not always.

    • Thanks for explaining your answer! Contracts and agreements are VERY important

    • sucks i can't seem to find myself a woman to start such a contract though

    • part of why i said not always is i dont want it to become routine either.

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  • I can't imagine anyone possibly objecting to such a lovely gesture

    • Quite a few on this question surprisingly 🤣🤭

  • If a man has a problem with that then there's something wrong with him.

    • Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

  • I normally wake up first and yes I just grab my husband’s and suck he loves it

    • Sounds sexy

    • Totally! My man is always happy to be woken up with me sucking his dick. And I love it to wake up to him feeling me up or fingering me then getting a good fuck.

  • Sounds like the perfect way to be woke up as long as she puts her sweetness in my face when I am woke up

    • Ooooooo! Sooooooo Erotic! Great answer!

  • Gals, you should check somehow to be sure your guy is reasonably awake. If not, he could reflexively kick you or punch you and hurt you - you wouldn't want that. Once you know he's a little bit up, you can then proceed to get him REALLY UP!

    Guys, same goes for arousing your gal. Just be sure that she's awake enough to realize it is you and not some rapist. heh heh

    • I enjoyed reading your post! Thanks for explaining your answer... I appreciate the tips and the help🙋👏

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