Is it possible for a guy to orgasm without going fast?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so if my husband starts "going at it" it turns me right off. But if that's the only way men can get off, I will happily let him "use me" ... but I would LOVE to just go slow and enjoy each other in every single way possible, you know? I actually love it when he's inside of me and we try to stay still, but we can still feel each other throbbing.. and then we start moving cause we can't stand still any longer... 😅

Anyways... can men get off like that or does it always have to be fast? 😭

[Minxxie]

Uhg god I hope so I feel the exact same way. My body reacts so strongly to slow, sensual, gentle sex and I cum so easily but I don't actually get much of it.

Fast and rough just makes me numb, sore, and annoyed after a while.

[Asker]

Yesss, same!! I hate how much I hate it, cause I wanna make my husband happy, but I also want so much more 😩

[Minxxie]

Yeah, I feel like maybe I should just gow with a woman instead sometimes because I am bi. I don't know if I want to deal with that for the rest of my life...

[Asker]

Right! I’ve never been with a woman before, but have definitely had crushes and daydreams. Haha

[LEGENDARY4200]

Yes it is possible and very manageable and yes it normally increases the pleasure for the women with much slower motions. I like to switch up my strokes and penitation to keep her guessing and intisipating my every thrust

[Dargil]

Generally as orgasm approaches, we have to make a run for it.

[wilxcool]

Yes it is very possible. It is very important to communicate these feeling to your husband. Your satisfaction matters too.

[Asker]

I did passively and he said he needs the quick stimulation and we didn't talk about it any further 😅 I know for a fact that we've had the best slow sex and both came from it and it just seems like he doesn't remember or maybe can't anymore?

[andreasderjuengere]

Of course it works the ''slow way'' as well.

But it does not look 'spectacular' in porn clips - so how can certain men know about it? :D

[Minxxie]

Uhg porn has ruined sex for pretty much all of humanity at this point it's so disappointing.

[andreasderjuengere]

@Minxxie // Apparently, I'm from a different century :D I don't talk about ''techniques'' with my buddies. But I will imagine that some of ''us'' do have a concern about our girls' -emm- well-being. Mainly from talk on here, I believe to see that contemporary behaviour is quite self focused, ''uninformed'', or influenced by trends. Also: some seem to believe that sexuality is some kind of Olympic discipline, where one needs to collect gold medals, or an entry in the ''Book of World Records'' Pick your man well - and you'll get one that you deserve...

[Minxxie]

All very true points! And thank you! I've been cautious and I'm glad I have been, I refuse to have pornified sex.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes! Sometimes, that's even better!

[tfan1]

Both. Depending on stimulation

[AnusNdaPainus]

If we go slower we will finish faster

[Nifrayu]

Of course.

[Likes2drive]

Just takes longer but if the sensation is intense it will happen without moving

[jahaims]

Duh..

[In_Trance]

Turns you right off? Wtf

[ThebestIndian]

I don’t know. But, I couldn’t

[YAsQuen]

depends. Sometimes when its a drag and i have to make myself cum ill go fast. Sometimes when i dont have the time ill go fast aswell. Most of the time i would prefer the slow sex orgasm but the fast sex in itself if that makes any sense.

[SunnyHornyLove]

Men has a high $ex drive. So they prefer speed. But if you be dominant in bed , being on top. You can play with him going slow and stopping before him cum. It'll make the duration go longer for both

[Lone_Wolf1974]

Guys can get off going slow. Its just the stimulation