Is it possible for a man to last 20 minutes in bed after a year of not having sex?

Just curious, my ldr boyfriend lasted quite a long. We did not have sex for a year due to distance and before he ejaculated quite fast. What happened? Need male perspectives :)
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  • There's a male bon mot which goes, "The FIRST is for 'the Thirst'.

    Nature's telling this deprived male to make the MOST of a limited opportunity.
    A phenomena called the Coolidge Effect finds that a male normally has what's termed
    a 'refractory period' wherein his Testes need recover to produce a second batch of
    seminal ejaculate UNLESS he is in the presence of a SUBSEQUENT copulatory
    opportunity with a DIFFERENT willing female (to engender a SECOND female's pregnancy)
    His body intuitively will muster its best efforts to again become... or remain... tumescent
    to fertilize this new, second female.

    • Very interesting thank you. I'm not an English native speaker and would you mind elaborating more on this: do you think he had sex during this year (when we were on distance) with other , and that's why he lasted longer? Or do you think it's not necessary and masturbation would make it longer as well?

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  • You liked it when he was fast? He could be more comfortable, or he could have beat off before. Time usually wouldn’t make u go longer. Unless he has trouble getting hard. In my opinion, the faster the better. And with time I’m ashamed to say I get quicker the more a women knows what I like. The sex gets better.. for me anyway lol

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  • If a man truly knows himself and his buddy there's ways that you can last up to two hours very easily

  • It might depend on when he last masturbated (yes all younger guys jerk off frequently... but most will never admit it)

  • Of course it's possible.

  • Easily.

  • Definitely possible. He's probably been taking care of himself.

  • Probably masturbated before hand. So that he would last.

  • It's possible you might have a something nasty blowing it's way out of your abdomen like a cliche xenomorphic eruption from alian. That is, if you are on the recieving end of all that pent up sexual tension.

    Is it possible for a man to last 20 minutes in bed after a year of not having sex?
  • Does that include foreplay or it was just 20 mins straight of PIV?

    • including foreplay

    • You might not be remembering correctly maybe since it was a year. Maybe the foreplay made it seem longer as he wasn't using his penis the whole time. From when he has his penis inside you it probably took the same amount of time as before.

    • I agree with this answer

  • Maybe. No way to know unfortunately. He could have been jerking off a lot.

    • That is the accurate answer, as most guys do NOT want girls to know that they jerk off a lot, so they won't shoot their wad so quick

  • While I agree with @uniquelybasic masturbating would have helped too.

  • Yes, it is.
    There are certain ways to focus your mind and do/not do certain movements with you body that allow you to work quickly or slowly, if at all.

  • of course it is. it's all about regulating the stimulation so you don't cum too early.

  • I probably wouldn't have lasted minutes once slid inside my girl if it had been a year.

  • Lol I doubt it.

    ... But who knows?

  • A lack of sex is usually the answer.

  • So, you are assuming he has been cheating on you. Sounds like you are projecting.

  • Could last up to an hour.

  • I would say that it is very unlikely considering that I am used to cumming twice inside her 5 times a week

  • I can last that long but not with a year of not doing anything. Lol

  • Yes, its very possible.

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