I think that I may be damaged as I cannot get one.
Noooo don’t think that how can you even say that word, every women is different and orgasms for women vary hugely from very mild to very intense, and many women experience the first one very late, for my part I was 30, I know a woman who was 35, and she is a stripper by the way she is very sexual… in my opinion it has a lot to do with intimacy, with someone or with yourself, its hard to explain but just took time for me… I also used to think that maybe something was wrong with me but not at all… plus some women react a lot to clitoral simulations and other form at all and in this case it’s harder to find your pleasure, many women don’t find their pleasure easily through vaginal simulation alone
0 0 0 0Oh right. So I should not be too worried then that I have not reached an orgasm yet? How was your first orgasm? Was it intense?
My mind plays a big factor in it. I find it very hard to relax. I live at home with my family and it is very hard to get alone time. I didn't realise that there was such a big variation in the level of orgasms that girls achieve.
Yes I’m also very ‘mental’ when it comes to sex, mental simulation is more important to me than just physical simulation, and tge emotional context of course… I would say don’t worry to much, and try to look at underlying fears, the more you understand yourself (physically and mentally) the more you can let go… my first orgasm I was squirting, but I think I’ve had ‘small’ ones before, just not very intense, or disappointing mentally because even if my body is reacting my mind is not there… I think it’s good to explore your kinks… I thought I had none and actually I have MANY and it’s just what gets me going. The only issue with not reaching orgasm easily is how to explain to men cause it’s very hard to explain, I’m still not sure tbh… sex is very personal and it takes time to know yourself…
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I think under the right circumstances that we are all capable of having an orgasm and it requires more than just the obvious sex part, but the mind has to be totally into it as well.
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(2)through sex or masturbation? neither?
0 1 0 0Through both but especially masturbation.
you wanna dm me instead of on here in the public?
i wasn't sure if you wanted to discuss it in the public forum is why i asked.
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