Girls, Is it possible for some women to never have the ability to reach an orgasm?

[Serriord]

The male orgasm is extremely easy to achieve. I would say that one hundred per cent of guys can achieve an orgasm. I think that the female orgasm is much more difficult to achieve given the complexities of the female orgasm. I saw a YouTube video which showed a very good diagram of the female body and I can understand how it is sometimes very difficult for girls to get there.

I'm wondering will some women go through their life without ever having the experience of reaching one?

How paramount is the mental being as well as the physical being in terms of achieving an orgasm?

[Anonymous]

Just like the movie we discussed, communication is the key.

But there is a medical condition that some women have, and they can't achieve an orgasm.

I met and talked with a girl like that, but she never told me that part until later.

I asked her a million questions about her lifestyle. She was into the BDSM theme.

She loved being a slave to her master. She had to do whatever the master said. And that includes having sex with anyone the master tells her to have sex with.

She said that some masters will loan out their slaves to other masters for the weekend.

So I was completely blown away when she told me about her condition. I just assumed she liked the sex part, but it was all a mental thing for her. She loved being controlled.

[Serriord]

I am going to try and read more about that Nextflix series that you told me about. The concept of the series is very original. It will encourage more men to ensure that their woman gets to have amazing orgasms. I think that is the key. Most guys just try and make the girl reach an orgasm but you girls want amazing orgasms. And you deserve to be able to reach the maximum level of your sexual capabilities. The mind plays a huge part. Oh wow. That is very interesting. And she tapped into that part of her sexuality and she saw that that lifestyle was enough for her to achieve extreme pleasure but she can't orgasm can she?

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. So here's a woman immersed in a sexual lifestyle, and she can't achieve orgasm. So her sexual pleasure was mostly all mental.

[Serriord]

Yes. That is very crazy to think about.

[Serriord]

So when did you first achieve an orgasm?

[Opinion Owner]

Probably around 13ish.

[Serriord]

So this woman is immersed deeply in a sexual lifestyle and she struggles to reach an orgasm can you imagine how hard it is for those women who have deep religious beliefs and that touching down there is hugely forbidden in their view? They must be finding it so hard to even think about beginning the process of seeing can they reach an orgasm? It is sad that some women will never get to experience the feeling of achieving one. Guys should read more and watch more videos to get more knowledgeable about female sexuality.

[Serriord]

We could message if you wish but I understand if you don't want to. Talking here is fine too.

[Serriord]

What was your first orgasm like?

[Opinion Owner]

My first time was very confusing. You can talk about orgasms all day long, but until you've experienced one, you have no reference. It's like trying to describe the color blue, to a blind person. It just won't work. I know a woman who was married for 20 years, and never had an orgasm from him. He felt that only whores wanted dirty things like that, and women don't deserve them. He wouldn't even let her suck his dick, because he thought it was Satanic. So he just got on top and got his, and then went to sleep. This is why it's beyond stupid to wait until marriage to have sex. Now she's divorced, and the biggest slut in the country. lol (And I don't mean that in a bad way)

[Serriord]

You are very right. Unless you have experienced an orgasm then it is very difficult to describe how an orgasm feels. That is very bad. Women deserve sexual pleasure and they deserve to achieve very powerful multiple orgasms. You women deserve to reach the maximum of your sexual capabilities and guys play the primary role in unlocking the key and letting the beast out of the cage. I hate guys who are selfish about this. It is right for a woman to want to masturbate or have sex and achieve massive orgasms. Multiple orgasms must be an amazing experience for a woman to have. I was 9 when I first achieved an orgasm.

[Serriord]

The female sexual desire has huge scope. Women have fantasies too as much as us. If a girl wants to experience lovemaking with a man and touch his naked body and make him feel huge pleasure while reciving huge pleasure from him that is amazing. Women have needs too.

[Opinion Owner]

But don't blame men for all of this. Women expect men to be mind readers. That's where the orgasm app comes in. The woman would be embarrassed to answer all of the questions the app asks you, if it was a guy asking. But because it's just an app, she can let loose and let a little bit of the beast, out. Only one girl in the movie actually tested the app. But when she tested the app, the guy she was in bed with was seeing her responses to all the questions. So if she said: I like that I hate that I like that I hate that... Then all the guy has to do is be smart enough to do the "likes." I have an idea for your research! Ask a question in which you create a questionnaire, and ask girls if they will answer the questionnaire to help you with your research. When the team of girls presented their science project to the audience, one girl pointed out that women have many erogenous zones. One of which is her wrist. Caressing her inner wrist, was one of the zones.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, women probably have more fantasies than men, it's just that they go about it in different ways. The number one best selling book genre of all time, is romance novels.

[Serriord]

You are right. Women could be more open if they realise that it is not a guy asking the question. They would be prepared to be extremely honest. If a girl responds incredibly well to certain stimulation then that will be a good way of finding out what turns her on the most and the more that she shares her sexual desires then the more likely that the guy will know exactly where to reach in order for her to reach massive multiple orgasms.

[Serriord]

How could I phrase the questionnaire?

[Opinion Owner]

Hang tight, and I'll post you a link.

[Serriord]

How could I phrase the questionnaire? You thought of a very good idea.

[Opinion Owner]

Tell them you saw the movie about how women can have the best orgasms. But explain that the girls who made the app were computer programmers, and you are not. Ask if they would be willing to answer a questionnaire, if that meant better and more orgasms.

Ladies, would you rather tell your lover in detail what sexually gets your motor running, or would you prefer your lover had a crystal ball? ↗

[Serriord]

A girl has many more erogenous zones than a guy. Much more in fact. And I never knew that the wrist had an erogenous zone. That is very interesting. Oh wow. That is a brilliant question that you posted. Thank you so much. In an hour I will post the question that you are advising me to.

[Opinion Owner]

Good , do it. Take some time to research those zones. Like the back of her knee. I'll throw out some examples.. *Do you want him to cum first or last? *Do you like dirty talk? *Gentle, rough or a mix? I could go on and on, but this is your project.

[Serriord]

I will post it in around forty minutes. I will send you the link.

[Serriord]

I want women to reach the maximum level of their orgasmic capability. The sky is the limit. Thank you for saying very kind words about me in your question. I like you.

[Opinion Owner]

Your research is noble, so we will see if anyone cares about it on this site.

[Serriord]

Thank you. It is.

[Serriord]

I'm going to post the question in 30 minutes.

[Opinion Owner]

OK. I'll wait up.

[Serriord]

I'll try and do it quicker than that.

[Serriord]

Would I be able to get your username?

[Serriord]

Oh no you said that you will see me here Any way. It is okay.

[Serriord]

Oh no you said that you will see me here anyway. That is okay.

[Serriord]

Hello. I'm going to post the question tonight. Last night I fell asleep and I hadn't time yet today to post it.

[Serriord]

How are you doing?

[Opinion Owner]

I just woke up from a nap.

[Serriord]

I saw your post and the comment that you made about women finding it very difficult to truly admit their sexual fantasies due to the stigma that surrounds female sexual fantasies. They feel suppressed by what society tells them to think and feel. A woman could want a threesome with two men and that is something that she should be very entitled to think about and want to happen in reality but society dictates for her to close her mouth and her mind.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly! And that's a shame, because women want the same freedom as men. When are you posting your question?

[Serriord]

I will post it in an hour and a half.

[Serriord]

I'm doing a few chores around the house at present.

[Opinion Owner]

OK...

[Serriord]

Would I be able to message you?

[Serriord]

I was reading a bit about the Netflix series Sexify. I would love to watch it but I have no Nextflix account. I love the idea of it. I think that all girls could learn a huge amount from a programme like this. Girls deserve to reach the ultimate peak of their sexual capabilities and I will continue to research a lot about female sexuality to ensure that I can help a girl reach her ultimate peak of sexual pleasure. I will be on here in an hour and a bit and I will compose the question then. Right now I am thinking of how I will phrase it.

[Serriord]

It is just that the conversation here is getting a bit long. But I understand if you don't wish to message.

[Opinion Owner]

Correct.

[Serriord]

Girls, Can you help me with a questionnaire that I am currently undertaking regarding female orgasms? ↗

[Serriord]

I just posted the question.

[petitedollbabee]

It is possible, yes. Those women may never have a partner who cares about their pleasure, or cares to explore. And those women could be religious aswell and be anti-masturbation, so they’ll never touch themselves down there. I’ve known women who were religious and waited until marriage before having sex, got into miserable marriages where they only had sex with their partner for reproduction, not pleasure, so they never got to have an orgasm. It’s pretty sad.

[Serriord]

The barriers go up for these women and they find it very hard to remove the shackles. You say that religion plays a big part in their view on masturbation and I agree. They associate masturbation to be a dirty thing and they never explore themselves down there. It is sad that some women may never reach an orgasm during their lifetime. That's tough on them. I think that guys should work much harder in ensuring that their partner reaches an orgasm. All women have the ability so but some do It get to unlock the key to their true sexual capabilities.

[petitedollbabee]

Absolutely.

[tesaturd]

My best friend has never had an orgasm. hasn't give herself one, husband nor previous boyfriend's have ever given her 1. We committed about 3 hours one day to give her one, I was determined and knew I could but I was wrong.

[Serriord]

Oh wow. That is very sad. I hope that she experiences one soon. It must be very tough for those women in life who never get to experience an orgasm. That's very sad. I think that a lot of the reason that women struggle to reach an orgasm is because it is ingrained in the female psyche that sexual pleasure is a forbidden thing and that masturbation is a dirty thing to do. Also deeply religious women view masturbation as a sin and they don't explore themselves. Touching down there is seen as a very sinful thing to do. There is a stigma around female masturbation that does not exist with male masturbation.

[Serriord]

There is as medical condition I believe where women can't reach an orgasm. I'm going to research about it. Have you ever found it hard to achieve an orgasm?

[tesaturd]

12 years so far and no orgasm for her. Yes Its a medical condition, don't remember the name. No I have no issues with orgasms other than stopping them lol

[Serriord]

Can you give me a follow back?

[Serriord]

Aw that is heartbreakingly sad. Given how easy it is for guys. I'm very glad that you can achieve an orgasm so easily.

[Serriord]

Why do you think that it is so difficult for some women to reach an orgasm?

[Anonymous]

I'm asexual. I have orgasmed. I know women who aren't but have yet to reach that big O with guys, girls and by themselves.

[Anonymous]

With some guys I was not able to so I just pretended and finished myself later.

[Serriord]

Oh right. It is much harder for a female to achieve an orgasm than it is for guys. Why do you think that you couldn't finish with some guys?

[Opinion Owner]

They weren't doing it right.