Is it possible she likes me but doesn't want to have sex with me?

i was relatively certain this girl liked me , i'd see her all the time and we talked and seemed to get along , we've done drinks together at the bar here. she'd make eye contact and seemed to want to spend time with me there. why would she do all this if she didn't like me

but it all seems to end there , we've never like done anything sexual or semi sexual , i'm perplexed at what she wants , she's fairly attractive so seems like the type of girl who's had sex before

or is she just trying to make sure i actually like her before taking things further
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  • Either she has no sexual attraction to u or she is very bad a reading signs. I guess I need mode info, was the bar a date or u guys just happen to frequent the same spots? A drink and a couple conversations don't really mean she knows u or u her. What if u ask her to hang elsewhere like to din or movie... that would show ur interest in a more planned setting.

    • we seem to freuqent the same spots , we've never like planned to hang out together , she also works at this restaurant that i go to. i feel like we know each other fairly well. i would like to do something with her outside of the spots where we normally see each other but not sure what to suggest.

    • Ask her out something simple like coffee if it's awkward then 30 min in and out but if coffee date is good then maybe go to lunch or din same day or suggest another date...

    • One of those ritualistic girls are you?

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  • She might be trying to make sure you like her for real before she takes things further

    • but isn't fairly obvious that i like her at this point

    • No. You might just wanna have sex with her. Or at least that could be what she’s worried about. Or she might be a virgin.

    • i'm pretty sure she's not a virgin although never like asked about that sort of thing but i agree its possible she thinks that i'm really interested in having sex with her although not sure why she'd think that was all i wanted as we like talk and hand out casually without any expectations of that occuring , so obviously i like spending time with her despite the fact i'm not getting laid

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Most Helpful Guy

  • You know it's possible to like another person without wanting to have sex with them, right?

    • well that was the question , its not entirely clear what she wants

    • debatable.

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  • How many dates have you had together?

    • we don't really go on dates , i just sort of see her at this pub that we go to , seen her maybe 6 times since the start of May , she had been away in another city for school reasons before that

    • I'm really sorry, but I don't think that this girl likes you more than just a casual friend. It would be a different story if she's been dating you for a while and shows signs of attraction to you, but if she's not usually asking you for dates or showing physical signs of affection or messaging you regularly and constantly flirting with you, I don't think she's that into you or wants to fuck.