Is it possible to be a virgin forever? Do you think I’ll make it?

Tbh I’m very uncomfortable with anything sexual i don’t really know y. I haven’t even had my first kiss. A lot of my friends tell me I won’t make it like I’m going to lose it and love it. Like yea I talk sexual but it’s different because I know I won’t do anything.
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  • You won't make it ,, I mean if that's really your choice cool and good luck,! If that's what you want then I hope you do it,, but all it's you g to take ,, is let's say you start chatting with someone and you start role playing ,, and if that guy is good then your going to want to feel it

  • I was there at some point. But it’s all different when you’re with the right person. One who would not make you feel weird about it. Things will flow naturally

  • It’s crazy how some girls are like terrified of sex into their 20s. And then some other girls are dirty whores chasing 30 year old men for BDSM style sex at age 15.

    • I know now I’m days these little ass girls love dick it’s fuckimg stupid I know a 14 year old that had a kid she had him at 13

    • The baby is like one now

  • Well you’re 18 and a lot could change until then. You could, however, be asexual.

    • Tbh I really have been looking into that today and I think I am but I’m kinda scard like it makes me sad bc I think it is actually true which that also means i still can be attractive to someone just not want to have sex and no guy wants that😔

    • I’m sure you’ll find a guy that you can make a spiritual connection with and he’ll make you want to do it I promise ! You’re still young

    • Thank you!!!

  • I believe you can be a virgin all your life. Just depends if you wanna have sex or not. That is how plain and simple it is.

    • Tbh I really think I’m asexual

    • Nothing won't with that. Be what makes you happy.

    • Wrong with that*

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  • Forever is a long time, good luck.

  • No problem keeping it as long as you want, wait for the right time, wait until you know 100% you want to do it and if you never feel that way that's fine.

  • Try masturbating lol. I'm serious. It'll help you discover a lot about yourself and your likes/dislikes. Never be afraid to experiment by yourself - in fact, it's really important to do so before experimenting with anybody else.

    • I already do

    • Don't worry about it too much... it might change overtime or maybe you just have a lower sex drive and that's perfectly normal too.

  • I was the same way at your age living at home. We can discuss privately — I know it is a sensitive topic

    • Yea like I’m not sure if like even being asexual is what I want becuse what if I actually like it?

  • Maybe you have some serious anxiety about men and your body.
    I suggest a good counseling session with a good couselor.
    You are missing out on a lot of wonderful feelings that your body has.
    You probably will make it with the way you think. Sad that you won't let yourself be loved.

  • its fine to feel like that in early years of your life. I've felt the same. but gradually you will develop sexual feelings and needs to. if not then, you've a choice to be virgin and enjoy your life as an individual :)

  • Could happen. Some dude in a movie lasted until he was 40.

    • He had oral sex. You talkin about the 40 year-old virgin. Therefore he is not a virgin. He just never had vaginal penile intercourse before. But he very much is not a virgin. So please stop making out like virginity is a bad thing because it really isn't.

    • Hey, lighten up. It was joke. It’s Christmas time and you should be feeling jolly.

    • First of all by that's not something that should be a joke about. You have no idea what kind of message you're sending. And Christmas have nothing to do with that. So be careful about what you say because you may come to find out a lot of people is not some people don't even celebrate Christmas. There's nothing wrong with feeling Jolly but you got to watch what you say. And that's not something to joke about. That's something really serious. There are other things that you can joke about. And what makes it worse you're not even being factual about the movie.

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  • Have you ever considered yourself to be asexual? Asexual is someone who has no interest in no ses. Im asexual as well.

    • To be honest I was thinking I am but also what if it’s just that I’m nervous like I realy don’t know how I find this out

  • do you enjoy masturbation? i ask because maybe thats all you want and if thats the case or if you are asexual i can't see why you would need to worry about having sex... i mean its not like its a requirement just to live so if you are happy then its all good

    • Yea I masterbait and i think I might be asexual the bad thing about this is that I can still feel love for someone just not want sex and most guys just want sex so it dosent help me at all lol

    • you need a younger version of me then... someone who can have romantic feelings but genuinely prefers masturbation to sex... we are a rare breed though but you might find someone via a dating app if you are confident enough to be upfront about your sexuality or lack there of

    • Wait r u saying ur asexual to?

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  • Why would you ever want to stay a virgin because sex and masturbation is the best thing ever , you would be missing out on all of the wonderful things your body can do.

  • Impossible to say. If you don't, it will be your choice. How do you feel about it? Are you happily unkissed or do you long to be kissed but your anxiety overrules your desire? If you wish you were different, maybe a therapist could help you overcome your anxiety.

    • I think it’s anxiety but it can be that I’m asexual I don’t know yet

  • It's okay me neither! I don't want to do anything if that kind until I get married and I don't like being physically close with the opposite gender cuz again I just don't want that.

    But hey no guarantee that I'll ever get married, if I don't I'll just live virgin forever lol, maybe adopt kids if I get desperate to become a mother. It's possible.

  • Don't sweat it. Life happens to us all in time. Wait til you are ready. 18 in my book is still pretty young. Keep focused on your life and where you want it to take you. For me life is to be lived and experienced. But first comes the maturity to protect yourself from things you don't want to experience. Lets see where you are in 4 years.

  • There is nothing wrong with remaining a virgin. Yes you can make it many havr in the past. That doesn't mean tou won't change your mind one day. I wouldn't be surprised if you did. I also wouldn't remind if you remained a virgin and remained single forever by choice either.

    • I think I’m asexual I can still be attractive to some just not want sex😔

  • You don't know what you don't know. People constantly change and evolve, and even 5 years from now your perspectives will be different than today. Never say never

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