Is it possible to be a virgin forever? Do you think I’ll make it?
Tbh I’m very uncomfortable with anything sexual i don’t really know y. I haven’t even had my first kiss. A lot of my friends tell me I won’t make it like I’m going to lose it and love it. Like yea I talk sexual but it’s different because I know I won’t do anything.
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36 104You won't make it ,, I mean if that's really your choice cool and good luck,! If that's what you want then I hope you do it,, but all it's you g to take ,, is let's say you start chatting with someone and you start role playing ,, and if that guy is good then your going to want to feel it
I was there at some point. But it’s all different when you’re with the right person. One who would not make you feel weird about it. Things will flow naturally
It’s crazy how some girls are like terrified of sex into their 20s. And then some other girls are dirty whores chasing 30 year old men for BDSM style sex at age 15.
I know now I’m days these little ass girls love dick it’s fuckimg stupid I know a 14 year old that had a kid she had him at 13
The baby is like one now
Well you’re 18 and a lot could change until then. You could, however, be asexual.
Tbh I really have been looking into that today and I think I am but I’m kinda scard like it makes me sad bc I think it is actually true which that also means i still can be attractive to someone just not want to have sex and no guy wants that😔
I’m sure you’ll find a guy that you can make a spiritual connection with and he’ll make you want to do it I promise ! You’re still young
Thank you!!!
I believe you can be a virgin all your life. Just depends if you wanna have sex or not. That is how plain and simple it is.
Tbh I really think I’m asexual
Nothing won't with that. Be what makes you happy.
Wrong with that*
Thank youu🥺
Hey I think everyone needs to be happy. Just please don't let peer pressure or society make the decision for you. It is one of those lines that once crossed you can't go back. I have a lot of those that I will not cross.
Forever is a long time, good luck.
No problem keeping it as long as you want, wait for the right time, wait until you know 100% you want to do it and if you never feel that way that's fine.
Try masturbating lol. I'm serious. It'll help you discover a lot about yourself and your likes/dislikes. Never be afraid to experiment by yourself - in fact, it's really important to do so before experimenting with anybody else.
I already do
Don't worry about it too much... it might change overtime or maybe you just have a lower sex drive and that's perfectly normal too.
I was the same way at your age living at home. We can discuss privately — I know it is a sensitive topic
Yea like I’m not sure if like even being asexual is what I want becuse what if I actually like it?
Maybe you have some serious anxiety about men and your body.
I suggest a good counseling session with a good couselor.
You are missing out on a lot of wonderful feelings that your body has.
You probably will make it with the way you think. Sad that you won't let yourself be loved.
its fine to feel like that in early years of your life. I've felt the same. but gradually you will develop sexual feelings and needs to. if not then, you've a choice to be virgin and enjoy your life as an individual :)
Could happen. Some dude in a movie lasted until he was 40.
He had oral sex. You talkin about the 40 year-old virgin. Therefore he is not a virgin. He just never had vaginal penile intercourse before. But he very much is not a virgin. So please stop making out like virginity is a bad thing because it really isn't.
Hey, lighten up. It was joke. It’s Christmas time and you should be feeling jolly.
First of all by that's not something that should be a joke about. You have no idea what kind of message you're sending. And Christmas have nothing to do with that. So be careful about what you say because you may come to find out a lot of people is not some people don't even celebrate Christmas. There's nothing wrong with feeling Jolly but you got to watch what you say. And that's not something to joke about. That's something really serious. There are other things that you can joke about. And what makes it worse you're not even being factual about the movie.
Ok. You’re gonna die before 30 with your attitude. You have fun with that if that’s how you roll. Life’s too short for all that. You seem like the type that’s easily offended and a snowflake. But hey, you do you and I’ll do me. Adios.
First of all that's your attitude that's not my attitude. I have plenty of fun and I know how to have fun. You talk about life is too short but look how you respond question you respond in the manner that's not respectful to other people. It's not about being easily offended and being a snowflake feel because you lack empathy and respect for others. That's selfishness. And if you behaving that selfishness and others are not going to want to be around you except attracting toxic people who think with your mentality. That's nothing to do with my attitude. I'm telling you to have respect for others. And don't put curses on me because I'm not going to have someone like you kill me either.
Ok. You totally misunderstood what I was saying. Someone is several beers short of a six pack and a bit angry over something. Who knows and who cares. Just seek help. It’s out there. 😂
I don’t even get what this means and oral sex dosent mean he lost his virginity he is still a virgin it’s the same if a girl gets a dildo she is still a virgin it has to be a real dick and then she isn’t a virgin so the same with a guy he has to put his dick inside a vagina
You 50 years old and you act like you was never taught better. Because I'm pretty sure your parents if you had any parents at all would tell you to treat others that way. I've dealt with plenty of guys that acted like you, and it has nothing to do with that personality have to do with your mentality. And that's toxic. Somebody who treats others that way or not people I want to be around people. Because in the end all they're going to do is hurt you at the expense of others pain. It says you lack self-awareness. You're the one that needs to get to help because you don't seem to have any kind of respect for anybody. I'm not misunderstanding anything. I'm telling you to grow up.
@deadrose18 A virgin is somebody who did not have any kind of sexual contact. He did lose his virginity. The medical definition of sex is vaginal peanut intercourse, oral which is mouth to genital, anal which can be mouth to anus, genitals to anus. It is still sex.
Sex is the exchange of bodily fluids it doesn't matter how it's done damn it you would learn this in sex education. Sex is not about what you feel or think about in the matter. That is what you choose to do. He is not a virgin. A virgin is somebody who had zero sexual experience.
You’re making my case for me by continuing. Again, there is help out there for you, reach out a friend, I’m sure they can help. Ha ha ha ha
And you're making my case. That you are type of person that nobody in their right mind wants to be around because you're too busy acting like a jerk off instead of respecting other people. And I'm pretty sure my friends that I had for over 20 years with tell you to stop acting like a prick, excuse my French. I don't hang around toxic people like you. And any mature adult would not be afraid of your little childish tactics and just simply ignore you.
Sense of humor. Find one before it’s too late. You might feel better sister. 🤣🤣
You're 50 years old. I at my age should not have to tell someone like you had to act like an adult. You're showing what some people are not able to respect others around your age because you giving others of your age of bad name. Grow up.
That's not sense of humor. That's you being a jerk. I have plenty of sense of humor and you're the biggest joke of them all.
@KrakenAttackin might find this interesting.
@btbc92 I’m sorry but I don’t see y your so mad at this guy he barley said anything bad I think ur just going a little to far with this and he kinda said the comment to me and I’m not even mad
Oh please. Why you want to bother other people? That says right there as a man you can't hold your own.
I have a great sense of humor snowflake. You might want to look up some YouTube videos on how to be funny.
Lol what tf is going on I’m so lost🤣
@deadroses18 That's not the point. The point is simply this. People in general don't take it seriously you and I disagree with that right. Met while he's saying something that he already don't take seriously and yet you already agree with them. Do you not realize that that's already caused you enough insecurities as it is and why you're questioning yourself? You are a virgin for a reason. As I already explained to you in my opt. You could easily choose to lose your virginity at any given time that you desire. For whatever reason you choose to do. But somebody like him is naturally making fun of virgins because he don't think it's serious. That's not helping you. And whether he did it unintentionally or not it's still something that should be treated respectfully. Because he don't see that there are others out there who may not have the same mental capacity as you and I and they may God forbid try to commit suicide because of the things he said his mouth. That's not right.
Me too. 😂😂😂
What you seeing he is exactly the type of men I will tell you to avoid. They will not respect you. He doesn't have a great sense of humor he's somebody that's too immature to see how his actions have consequences. Probably don't have much friends that's for sure.
It's not about just what he said. It's about the intent.
You have fun in your bubble now. Hopefully the big bad man won’t hurt you and ‘cause you to go to your safe space.
Funny. If you wasn't being so much of an attention whore. Did a virgin hurt you is that why you act like you have such a stigma against virginity?
Oh yes! How did you know? She robbed me of it at age 16. I’ve never gotten over it. You’re very insightful.
I smell insecurity. Because I have plenty of male friends that is very fun, very loving, very respectful, sensitive, so I'm not too sensitive, Etc and they don't behave like you. But I have attractive guys like you before and is one reason why. And security. Whatever personal mistakes you have in your past you got to get healed from it. Because it sounds like to me somebody who has a lot of regrets and now you're trying to attack someone else with it. Because I never once attacked you. All I said was have some respect. And you decided to take that very personal.
I’m very insecure and lack self confidence. You’re two for two. Keep going. What else is wrong? I need to fix this stuff.
No. That's you who made the decision not to keep your legs closed. Not my fault you left common sense. You can't handle an adult decision you don't go around getting in it. You made that decision. I know to get married first. And I know to get married to a person that's going to love me and cherish me. Not be so quick to help yourself out there and then you want to know why you don't got stable relationships, or marriage. And that's even if you can even keep one. I can tell now that the entire comment and post was all personal. You got issues.
Learn from your mistakes. Forgive others. Forgive yourself. Repent from those sins, and move on with life. Your choices don't just affect you it affects other people. Being responsible for those decisions is what going to make people respect you a lot more than the way how you choose to behave and act. Because you won't get respect let alone love that way. You're human. Lots of people make mistakes. But there are some mistakes that are not worth your life if you're not prepared to live with it.
If you desired to be loved and you got to First Learn To Love Yourself. There is value in a man that's a virgin just like a woman. Your precious in God's eyes as we are. But you have to be the one to believe that and desire that for yourself.
Well if people don’t respect me I don’t care lol not everyone is going to like everyone and if people think being a virgin for a while is stupid then that’s on them I don’t care lol I’m not gonna be a hoe and lose it just bc I want to or bc Society tells me too I do stuff when I want so if he was makeing fun of us I don’t really care I can’t do anything he’s literally some where eles over the phone u can talk to people all u want but if they don’t understand that’s on them.
Asker, you have to understand that you don't have the same mindset as other people. How you are being seen and treated is going to reflect whether or not somebody is going to want to invest in you. I am Telling You by personal experience. If you are not able to connect to others in a certain way is going to leave you lonely. Gossip and rumors will spread, and others are not going to want to desire to invest in you. That's what leaves some people involuntarily celibate. Do I always believe celibacy is a choice and I know because I'm celibate by choice. However if you truly desire partner they will make it even harder for you to do so. Listen to somebody who has experienced. Because if the world was exactly how you would say I would have been married at 18 with kids already with 11 husband. That's not what happened.
You will have your naysayers. But as long as you stay true to what you know is right for you to do and you do it right in God's eyes, you're fine. You know to wait. Just don't settle for less than what you know you deserve. And God will see you through.
Have you ever considered yourself to be asexual? Asexual is someone who has no interest in no ses. Im asexual as well.
To be honest I was thinking I am but also what if it’s just that I’m nervous like I realy don’t know how I find this out
do you enjoy masturbation? i ask because maybe thats all you want and if thats the case or if you are asexual i can't see why you would need to worry about having sex... i mean its not like its a requirement just to live so if you are happy then its all good
Yea I masterbait and i think I might be asexual the bad thing about this is that I can still feel love for someone just not want sex and most guys just want sex so it dosent help me at all lol
you need a younger version of me then... someone who can have romantic feelings but genuinely prefers masturbation to sex... we are a rare breed though but you might find someone via a dating app if you are confident enough to be upfront about your sexuality or lack there of
Wait r u saying ur asexual to?
i think im more autosexual than asexual because i do love masturbation... asexual means one has no sexual interest at all when for me i am infact a porn addict and i masturbate several times a day
So the thing about me is when I masterbait I like it but my mind isn’t focused on masterbaiting like I can literally be focused on what I’m going to do for the rest of the day and like I can get soooo wet and just not masterbait like I don’t really care but I do like masterbaiting I don't know I’m confusing
well it does take time to work it out
Why would you ever want to stay a virgin because sex and masturbation is the best thing ever , you would be missing out on all of the wonderful things your body can do.
Impossible to say. If you don't, it will be your choice. How do you feel about it? Are you happily unkissed or do you long to be kissed but your anxiety overrules your desire? If you wish you were different, maybe a therapist could help you overcome your anxiety.
I think it’s anxiety but it can be that I’m asexual I don’t know yet
It's okay me neither! I don't want to do anything if that kind until I get married and I don't like being physically close with the opposite gender cuz again I just don't want that.
But hey no guarantee that I'll ever get married, if I don't I'll just live virgin forever lol, maybe adopt kids if I get desperate to become a mother. It's possible.
Don't sweat it. Life happens to us all in time. Wait til you are ready. 18 in my book is still pretty young. Keep focused on your life and where you want it to take you. For me life is to be lived and experienced. But first comes the maturity to protect yourself from things you don't want to experience. Lets see where you are in 4 years.
There is nothing wrong with remaining a virgin. Yes you can make it many havr in the past. That doesn't mean tou won't change your mind one day. I wouldn't be surprised if you did. I also wouldn't remind if you remained a virgin and remained single forever by choice either.
I think I’m asexual I can still be attractive to some just not want sex😔
You don't know what you don't know. People constantly change and evolve, and even 5 years from now your perspectives will be different than today. Never say never